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Shawn Montgomery - Nothing But Love

2012-02-10T09:00:00.000-05:00

1. What do you find attractive about plus size women

FIRST OF ALL PLUS SIZE WOMEN HAVE A SPIRIT OF CARING AND BEING VERY GIVING THEY ARE WOMEN WHO DO FOR OTHERS BEFORE THEY DO FOR SELF.

2. Have you always been attracted to plus size women

I HAVE ALWAYS BEEN ATTRACTED TO PLUS SIZE WOMEN SINCE18 YEARS OLD I WAS THE KID THAT MY MALE FRIENDS TEASED AND LAUGHED AT AND SAID HE LIKE BIG GIRLS, I SAID THAT'S WHAT I LIKE SO WHAT!

3. At what age did you realize that you were attracted to plus size women?

AT THE AGE OF 18 I LOVE WHAT IT WAS TO HAVE A WOMAN ON MY ARMS WHO I KNEW WAS THICK AND SEXY!

4. When you found out that you were attracted to plus size women did you admitted it right away or did you hid it from others?

I ADMITTED IT RIGHT AWAY I WAS ATTRACTED TO PLUS SIZE WOMEN BUT MY FRIENDS TEASED ME, I DIDN'T CARE ABOUT THAT I NEW WHAT I LIKED.

5.What advise if any would you give a plus size women looking for a man that will appreciate and love her for herself?

IF A MAN IS LOOKING FOR A PLUS SIZE WOMAN, LADIES THEY MUST LET YOU KNOW THAT THEY APPRECIATE YOU, TELL YOU EVERY DAY EVERY HOUR EVERY MOMENT THEY LOVE YOU, THEY MUST LET YOU KNOW YOUR WHAT I WANT AND NEED IN THERE LIFE. SHOWING A WOMEN YOU LOVE THEM SOMETIMES IS BETTER THEN TELLING THEM IN SOME SITUATIONS

More about Shawn

Shawn Montgomery aka DJ Money Makin’

Shawn Montgomery, born and raised in Mount Vernon, New York, under the compassionate and loving care of his mother, Emily Montgomery, who worked two jobs to maintain the well-being of this now successful gentleman.

Growing up, Shawn’s foundation of hard work and integrity was inspired by Washington Elementary School Principal Nelly A. Thornton, who became one of his mentors. The staff at Robert Fulton School made sure to provide an academic environment for Shawn, who graduated with honors in both academics and music. The Mount Vernon High School Band was pleased to have him as a drummer and as a valued member of a Break Dance Group who won 1st place in their talent competition.He received the Cream Memorial Taylor Award and Scholarship that would aide him in financing his education. In the community he was a member of the Martin Luther King Drum and Bugle Corps, which he played for during middle and high school.

Moving forward Shawn made the decision to serve his country by joining the United States Army and National Guard. While serving in the military, he continued his education and received his Bachelor’s Degree in Business Management and Management Information Systems from Monroe College. While maturinginto a valuable citizen of his country, hebecame a loving father to a beautiful baby girl, Chereese S Montgomery,who later blossomed into a lovely young lady who continues to make her father proud.Shawn is currently an affiliate of the Veterans of Foreign Affairs, Disabled American Veterans and the M.W. Enoch Grand AFAM of Brooklyn, NY.

He works two jobs;St. Christopher’s Inc., Greenburg North Castle School. His ambitious nature, foundation of hard work and integrity has led him to want to do more and to be part of a greater cause. His love for the culture of New York,music, dance, community stirred his interest towards INTHEMIXXRADIO (Internet Live Radio Show) as a host of, The Officially Rated Thick Show, which is geared toward uplifting the plus-sized community.The show broadcasts every Saturday, 6:00p-8:30p and not only caters to the plus-sized community, but alsopromotes and markets plus size organizations,companies, events, fashion/beauty showsand entertainment. The Officially Rated Thick Show which is multifaceted caters to new and upcoming artists of all genres of music and arts (fine arts, theatre, dance) and has a nation-wide audience with ratings ranging from 300-1,000. Every week, The Officially Rated Thick Show airs a special guest DJ, artist or company.

The Officially Rated Thick Showcontinuously offers charitable media coverage of community events for families. In 2011 The Officially Rated Thick Show will begin covering the YWCA in White Plains, NY annual Street Fair/Carnival for the children. TNT will also host a semi-annual Plus Size Model Casting Call and Networking Mixer, and an annual theme-based fundraiser to support Veterans of Foreign Wars Aaron a Lewis Post 6396.

Our mission is to promote positive awareness of size acceptance, of thick and
thicker people across the United States of America. We promote our thick and thicker
community through networking events, community awareness, and fashion
and beauty events where our Thick N Thicker models are featured. We host live media interviews via our online radio show, The Officially Rated Thick Show, which
promotes plus-size models, clothing company’s, entertainers, food caters,
magazines and venues that cater to the plus-size community. We support our
nation’s military, armed forces and organizations, which as a company we stand firm on. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, Our Company believes, beauty is in all of us, in our own way, someone out there likes you and what you’re doing “in the land of the free and the home of the brave.”

Jean JNESS Nerestant - Creative and Blessed

2012-02-09T21:46:00.001-05:00

1. What do you find attractive about plus size women?

The first thing that holds my attention is her silhouette. As an artist my
eyes automatically strategize the way I would draw her, and the outline is very important to the drawing.

2. Have you always been attracted to plus size women?

I remember being attracted to a plus size girl as far back as grade school. Her older brother went to the school too, so she was completely off limits.

3. At what age did you realize that you were attracted to plus size women?

I was 11 when I realized it wasn't just the girl in grade school that caught my eye, but I was too young to really understand. At that age it seemed like everything you thought, was deemed wrong by your parents.

4. When you found out that you were attracted to plus size women did you admit it right away or did you hide it from others?

I hid it for years, the bad part was the girls I were attracted to I made fun of because that was acceptable to my circle of friends. To a teenager, seeming normal and fitting in are very important things. I made fun of one particular girl in high school. By the time I realized that the way of the crowd wasn't my way, I approached her with how I really felt... It was too late, she let me have it. Ever since then I have worked diligently to not be part of the crowd. I admitted it to my friends, but it wasn't until years later that I actually entered a relationship with a plus size woman.

5. What advice if any would you give a plus size woman looking for a man that will appreciate and love her for herself?

My advice is beware of guys that are too into your size. You want to be the object of someone's affection not the focus of their fetish. I believe a guy who is into you won't make your size the main topic of discussion every time you talk to him. My friends never walked over to a girl and said, "Um you're so beautiful and thin". It's OK for him to have a preference, but it shouldn't be his main focus.

Married 20 Years, Father of 5 Children

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Illustrator of Plus Size Art/ Graphic Designer for over 15 years

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Owner of JNESS Graphics

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Originally from Brooklyn, NY

Kevin Buist - Smart Sexy & Single

2012-02-08T09:00:00.000-05:00

1. What do you find attractive about plus size women?

All the qualities I like in women that aren't plus size. It's more about the character and personality of the woman. If she's fun, intelligent, loves herself and the person she is, believes she can make a difference, and is God-fearing....then I'll be attracted. Her size isn't a factor. Sexy comes in all shapes and sizes.

2. Have you always been attracted to plus size women?

I wasn't raised to see size. There's all types of women in my family and they're all shapes and sizes. I don't care about big little short or tall.....if you carry yourself in a way that attracts me, I'm attracted.

3. At what age did you realize that you were attracted to plus size women?

When I first started liking girls around age 5 the size didn't matter.

4. When you found out that you were attracted to plus size women did you admitted it right away or did you hid it from others?

I told whoever wanted to listen. I don't have the same hang-ups that society has. Plus I could care less about what people think!....I do what I do with whom I choose for my reasons. No one else is involved in that formula.

5.What advise if any would you give a plus size women looking for a man that will appreciate and love her for herself?

Just be who you are. You'll find each other. Remember to first love yourself because society is wacked. The proof....look what's in today. They say pork is the new white meat, black is the new white, bad means good. Soon fat will be the new skinny!

gazelle357

NY, upper West side

single.

Marvin Matthew - Debonair Businessman

2012-02-07T09:00:00.000-05:00

1. What do you find attractive about plus size women

Shape and softness!

2. Have you always been attracted to plus size women

Yes since JHS

3. At what age did you realize that you were attracted to plus size women?

About 15

4. When you found out that you were attracted to plus size women did you admitted it right away or did you hid it from others?

Kinda hid it but ,not really shamed of it though.

5.What advise if any would you give a plus size women looking for a man that will appreciate and love her for herself?

Don't act as though you have low self estem. Be happy about you self. (( YET BE NEAT TOO NOW))

Marvin Matthew is the proud owner of Beauty's A Plus located at:

209 E Fairfield Rd.

High Point, NC 27263

Single

William Keeby - Tall Dark & SINGLE

2012-02-06T21:29:00.001-05:00

1. What do you find attractive about plus size women?

1. I have rarely date a skinny woman. I love women of all sizes but I definitely love curveaous ones more. I find that you can hug a plus size woman and see there grace and beauty. I like a woman that reminds me of the strong women in my family. Most in my family are plus size. Thick thighs ,full lips, and thick hips are all attractive qualities. Secondly I have never met a plus size woman who didn't know how to enjoy themselves and was not the life of the party.

2. Have you always been attracted to plus size women.

2. Yes I have always been attracted to plus size women. My first girl was plus sized and very confident.

3. At what age did you realize that you were attracted to plus size women?

3. I have always been attracted to plus size women. I was always around plus size women. My aunts grandmothers and mom are all plus size.

4. When you found out that you were attracted to plus size women did you admitted it right away or did you hid it from others?.

4. I never hide who I liked. I was a free spirit who just saw a person I liked not their size.

5.What advise if any would you give a plus size women looking for a man that will appreciate and love her for herself?

5. My advice to any women plus sized or otherwise is this choose wisely. Get to know the person rather then get caught up in the looks and how they treat you. If you have never met his family or friends then find someone else because he isn't going to do right by you. If he doesn't look you in the eyes when he tells you how he feels about you then he maybe gaming you. Please first and foremost love yourself because self esteem is the most important part to having a relationship. You can't allow someone else to love you if you don't love yourself first. Lastly dress in what makes you feel good. A real man will always see your beautiful no matter what you wear.

Stay positive .

William K..

30.

ATL & NYC.

Huwe Burton -Tall Dark & Talented

2012-02-03T13:36:00.000-05:00

1. What do you find attractive about plus size women?

The thing that's most attractive about plus size women is the confidence.Coupled with the fact that they have such a natural beauty,the confidence puts it over the top.

2. Have you always been attracted to plus size women?

Yes I have always been attracted to plus size women. A lot of the women I grew up around were plus size.I always viewed it as a sign of good health and happiness.

3. At what age did you realize that you were attracted to plus size women?

I think I realized it when I was around 15 years old.

4. When you found out that you were attracted to plus size women did you admitted it right away or did you hid it from others?

At 15 you are very image conscious and impressionable. I didnt admit it right away,but when I grew into my own I had no problem with it

5.What advise if any would you give a plus size women looking for a man that will appreciate and love her for herself?

Confidence confidence confidence!!!!!!!!You already know you look good,we know you look good,but if you think he may not want me because I dont look like the women I see on tv or the runway it shows. Your Body language speaks louder than your words ever could! When you walk into a room OWN IT! More men are attracted to plus size women than you think!Just like women love a confident man,the same is applicable to us.Especially men of African descent!We do right with a strong women!

Huwe Burton

New York

married.

Huwe is a Videographer and Music producer. His Video company is HMB Productions and the music production company is Dirty Handz Productions LLC

Armando Jardine - Older & Wiser

2012-02-02T21:23:00.000-05:00

1. What do you find attractive about plus size women?

What’s not attractive about them… The simile I use is tires, why have regular tread when you can have all seasonal

2. Have you always been attracted to plus size women?

Truthfully no but as I got older and a little wiser to certain things I’ve enjoyed their company especially the women who are sure of themselves

3. At what age did you realize that you were attracted to plus size women?

My Late twenties

4. When you found out that you were attracted to plus size women did you admitted it right away or did you hid it from others?

Im from a different breed of Man I’m not embarrass of things that are God sent

5.What advise if any would you give a plus size women looking for a man that will appreciate and love her for herself?

Be herself and he will find her

Name: Armando Jardine

Age 38

Location: Virginia

Status: In a Relationship

All you need is LOVE

2012-02-01T21:29:00.003-05:00

February is all about love and at Blissful Elegance Events we plan to share it with you.

We have reached out to nine men to find out what they love about our curves, whether it’s the curve of our smile or the curve of our hips these answers are sure to make your day.

Zandrina Stewart - Z. Charles Creations

2011-03-16T13:04:00.002-04:00

Born in Brooklyn, New York, Zandrina always had an eye for the unusual styles in jewelry. Starting in year 2000 she decided that designing jewelry was her true passion. Her jewelry line Z. Charles Creations was born that same year. The line became an instant success and since then she has had the privilege of working with many talented members of the fashion and entertainment industries. She has recently collaborated with some new & leading designers Glenroy March of House of D'Marsh, Melba Christine hand bags, Allisha Trimble of Blanche DuMois Lingerie. Also Zandrina works with stylists on some major photo shoots, music video, independent movies. She has designed jewelry for recording artists Natalie Stewart of Floetry , Esso, Vickie Natalie, Mark P. Stewart and Sherry Lewis. Her designs are one of a kind and handmade to order... "Making you look good is what we do." Check out Z Charles web site www.zcharlescreations.com And check Z out on Face Book at Z.Charles Zandrina Stewart. www.zcharlescreations.com Zandrina Stewart

Aja B Stubbs - Belle-Noir Communications

2011-03-15T07:58:00.001-04:00

Throughout history, in every era there have been leaders and activists who spearheaded a movement. When history is written Ms. Aja B. Stubbs will be added to that list of advocates for her role in transitioning the plus community through her company, Belle-Noir Communications and its entities. The journey began in September 2003 when a group of plus size women of Color in a Yahoo Group were discussing the lack of positive representations of plus size women. Print magazines for plus size women were folding and those for women of Color were lacking in their coverage of the plus community as a whole. At the same time, presentations of plus size women online —particularly plus size women of Color-- was mostly exploitation on adult entertainment sites. With much determination, Belle-Noir E-zine launched in November 2003. After four successful years as a bi-monthly e-zine, Belle-Noir transitioned to a blog format in an effort to provide "bakery fresh" content to our readers on a daily basis. Belle-Noir has grown from a bi-monthly e-zine into Belle-Noir Communications, home to: Belle-Noir Magazine, the bi-monthly digital life style magazine created with the plus size woman of Color in mind and at heart; Phat Poetry–A poetry/spoken word event created to feature poetry for, by and about plus size men and women; and Curves & Cocktails: The Ultimate Girls Night Out for Women with Curves shopping & socializing event. The dream that started in 2003 is now recognized by the entire plus community as Belle-Noir Communications has been affiliated with Gwen DeVoe’s Full Figured Fashion Week, and has partnered as Media Sponsor for Kiss the Curves and The International Fuller Woman Expo. Aja has proven to be one of the first voices and advocates for Everyday Plus Size Women of all races, but especially Women of Color. Her mission is to show the plus size community and the world that all plus size women; regardless of social, career or economic status, are beautiful. Aja lives by her daily mantra, “Love the Big Beautiful You!” Born and raised in The Bronx, New York, Aja is a graduate of Marymount Manhattan College. She proudly still calls the Bronx home. For more information, please visit: Belle-Noir Magazine www.belle-noir.com http://bellenoirmag.blogspot.com www.facebook.com/bellenoirmagazine http://twitter.com/bellenoirmag Phat Poetry www.phatpoetry.com Curves and Cocktails www.curvesandcocktails.com http://twitter.com/CurvesCocktails

Sabrina Ayala Sadler - Phenomenal Women Empowerment Alliance

2011-03-14T07:35:00.002-04:00

PWEA was developed exactly ten years ago. With the first few meetings being held monthly in the living room of her home, she empowered, motivated and encouraged!!! She decided, after frequently being approached by several women expressing their desires to explore other avenues of making a living, as well as, the emotional necessity of reinventing themselves, to organize an Alliance. Many of these women opened home based businesses, continued their education, changed careers, and/or began utilizing their talents, creativity, knowledge, and desires to reach their dreams and goals individually and collectively. These Phenomenal Women were also looking to grow emotionally and spiritually. Sabrina developed a magnificent sisterhood!! These women love, respect, care, motivate, inspire, and empower one another in all areas of their lives, with Sabrina being the Motivator of them all. Sabrina's mission is to empower, edify and encourage women to assume greater ownership and achieve their maximum potential. TOGETHER THEY REACH FOR THE STARS AND ACHIEVE THEIR GOALS! She is celebrating ten years of empowering, motivating and inspiring women to live, love and laugh together!!! Guiding them on the path to obtain, grasp and achieve their highest potential. Supplying them with the necessary tools to achieve and accomplish their goals and actually live their life‘s purpose! Sabrina Ayala Sadler, finally stepped out on faith, and retired from Corporate America at the age of 46. Sabrina, awife, a daughter, grand-daughter, mother, sister, grand-mother, and loyal girlfriend worked successfully in the legal field for more than 25 years. She thanks God for the opportunity and the ability to have been employed by New York City’s major law firms. Although it enabled her complete financial independence and security, it simply was not her calling, nor was it God’s purpose for her life. Her purpose was not a career in the Legal world at all. She knew this almost 25 years ago. It was a flicker in her soul that grew into a burning desire in her spirit. She needed to do what God intended her to do. Sabrina's empowering soul conveys, as well as, supports the necessity for women to own their own businesses, or to just do what THEY enjoy doing in their lives for themselves! Whatever it is that truly makes them HAPPY and WHOLE! Possibility is a very compelling and creative force for her. She is driven to help women discover and bring about their limitless possibilities. They are continuously motivated and inspired by her to emerge to the heights they desire in all areas of their lives. Her Motto is: Do you! She assists and directs these women by providing the essential tools that are crucial for them to be able reach their goals individually and collectively. She does this by demonstrating "LOVING YOURSELF TECHNIQUES" coupled with VALUABLE information for financial, professional, personal, emotional, physical, spiritual and independent growth and development! Sabrina is NOW working solely and diligently to edify WOMEN and Children! Sabrina is a very creative writer and communicator. Her interior decorating ability is outstanding. She has an eye for fashion and style. She is finally enjoying living her life’s purpose! Sabrina opened the doors to the Phenomenal Women Charm & Etiquette School for Boys & Girls February 2007. She is providing our youth with courses in charm, etiquette, culture and grace. She teaches boys and girls ages 5 - 19. Sabrina decided to be a part of the solution where our children are concerned. Instead of just speaking about it, she decided to be about it. Enabling our youth the ability to feel secure and confident in all arenas gives them the self-assurance to excel, and success is a given at this point. Sabrina truly believes that confidence, and a healthy self-esteem is an essential and integral part of their growth and development. Her feelings that our children should be equipped to eat at the white house with ease, as well as, the rib shack without losing their dignity or respect, impels her to give them the essential training that is required for them to do so. She does an excellent job providing them with heritage and background information. Knowledge of where they come from bestows upon them a sense of respect, honor, and pride. Her Rites-of-Passage Ceremony is second to none. Society does dictate certain behaviors. Her graduates are prepared for life. Sabrina loves to travel and entertain. She always spends quality time with her family and friends. God has blessed her with the gift of creativity. She loves all beautiful things. Sabrina can see beauty in everything, and in everybody. She is happiest when she is decorating, entertaining, and/or coordinating. She loves to dance, and loves old school music. She’s not a television person, per se, but loves the TCM Network (Turner Classic Movies) they showcase movies from the 1930's - 1960's). She loves their style of dress, and the beautiful massive homes of that time. She always states how they were all so "GRAND". She marvels and comments on how the ladies always dressed so classy, elegantly, sexy and beautifully, and the men were gentlemen. They wore suits, top coats and hats, and they had MANNERS. She adores and admires the Chivalry of that time. She often says, she would've loved to have lived in that era! Sabrina’s zest and love for people and life, coupled with the ability to truly love has been the basis of her wish, support and encouragement for women throughout her life. She is equipped to do this because she has always been loved. God blessed her with loving parents, grandparents, aunts, uncles and cousins. She is thankful and appreciative for HIS choice for her parents! Loving her unconditionally taught her how to do so as well. Nurturing her, and supporting her in all areas of her life ALWAYS…even when they disagreed with her choices! They never stopped parenting! She is blessed to know and receive this authentic kind of love from her parents. Without a doubt her brothers also love her with the same type of love that she receives from her parents. She is extremely content with being the only girl, and feels blessed to have them as her siblings! They are all great men, all 4 of them! Sabrina was loved by her mate. Therefore, she was able to go forth into the world with true love in her heart because she was always truly loved. However, make no mistake about it her very first ultimate and greatest love occurred on May 17, 1981 when she gave birth to her eldest son, Robert. Rob has been an enormous blessing in her life from the beginning. After 17 years of being Rob’s mom, and Sabrina feeling that she could not possibly ever love anyone as much as, or in the same way as she loves Robert, God showed her the capacity of a mother’s heart. Again, on November 10, 1998 God showed up and showed out in her life, with that same type of ultimate greatness. Tyler was born! Trying to find the words to communicate how her boys FILL her heart with so much LOVE AND JOY takes her breath away. They are the true BLESSINGS of her life!! Just when she thought she could not love at this magnitude again, God gave them Tiana, her granddaughter. It becomes a different world for her to now actually see her Mini me! They love and understand each other completely! Sabrina has a quick wit that is refreshing and amusing. She loves to laugh, and is usually very happy. She can brighten your day when she sees you, because you can be sure that she will flash an ear to ear smile almost instantly. Although, the best thing about her smile is not her pearly whites, it’s the actuality that you can see THE SMILE in her eyes. The mirror of her soul! Its REAL! Sabrina Ayala Sadler Phenomenal Women Empowerment Alliance,LLC. www.phenoms2the10thpower.org

Surgeon General - Vice Admiral Regina M. Benjamin, MD, MBA

2011-03-13T00:20:00.001-05:00

Regina M. Benjamin, MD, MBA is the 18th Surgeon General of the United States Public Health Service. As America’s Doctor, she provides the public with the best scientific information available on how to improve their health and the health of the nation. Dr. Benjamin also oversees the operational command of 6,500 uniformed health officers who serve in locations around the world to promote, protect, and advance the health of the American People. Dr. Benjamin is Founder and Former CEO of the Bayou La Batre Rural Health Clinic in Alabama, former Associate Dean for Rural Health at the University of South Alabama College of Medicine in Mobile, and immediate Past Chair of the Federation of State Medical Boards of the United States In 1995, she was the first physician under age 40 and the first African-American woman to be elected to the American Medical Association Board of Trustees. She served as President of the American Medical Association Education and Research Foundation and Chair of the AMA Council on Ethical and Judicial Affairs (CEJA). In 2002 she became President of the Medical Association State of Alabama, making her the first African American female president of a State Medical Society in the United States. Dr. Benjamin has a BS in chemistry from Xavier University, New Orleans; MD degree from the University of Alabama, Birmingham; an MBA from Tulane University and eleven honorary doctorates. She attended Morehouse School of Medicine and completed her family medicine residency in Macon, Ga. She established a clinic in a small fishing village in Alabama to help its uninsured residents. Dr. Benjamin persevered through Hurricane Georges in 1998, Hurricane Katrina in 2005, and a devastating fire, in 2006, often putting up her own money to cover expenses. She also became nationally prominent for her business acumen and humane approach to preventive medicine. Dr. Benjamin is a member of the National Academy of Science’s Institute of Medicine, and a Fellow of the American Academy of Family Physicians. She was a Kellogg National Fellow and a Rockefeller Next Generation Leader. Some of her numerous board memberships include the Robert Wood Johnson Foundation, Kaiser Commission on Medicaid and the Uninsured, Catholic Health Association, and Morehouse School of Medicine. In 1998 Dr Benjamin was the United States recipient of the Nelson Mandela Award for Health and Human Rights. She was named by Time Magazine as one of the “Nation’s 50 Future Leaders Age 40 and Under.” She was featured in a New York Times article, “Angel in a White Coat,” in People Magazine, on the December 1999 cover of Clarity Magazine and was on the January 2003 cover of Reader’s Digest, She was also “Person of the Week” on ABC’s World News Tonight with Peter Jennings, and “Woman of the Year’ by CBS This Morning. She received the 2000 National Caring Award which was inspired by Mother Teresa, received the papal honor Pro Ecclesia et Pontifice from Pope Benedict XVI and was awarded a MacArthur Genius Award Fellowship.

11 Extraordinary Women

2011-03-11T09:41:00.001-05:00

Making Moves and Changing History - AKA- HER STORY

ShaChena Gibbs - Real Sisters Rising

Nanthale E Collins - NEC Fashion & Image Consultant

Sheneese Starr - The In Your Face Movement

LyToya Parker - The In Your Face Movement

Grace Odogbili - Dining With Grace

Dhylles Waight - KatWalk Katerers

Michelle Wild - MWild Photograpy

Andrene Williams - Lady Doves Organization & GEVAS

Tasha Hill - BGU - Big Girls United

Jeannie Ferguson - BGU - Big Girls United

Denise A Best - Blissful Elegance Events

Grace Odogbili - Dining With Grace

2011-03-10T05:46:00.002-05:00

Grace Odogbili is Owner and Executive Chef of Dining With Grace, a Brooklyn-based boutique off-premise Catering and Culinary Consulting company specializing in African-inspired and eclectic fine foods. Begun by owner in late 2009, Dining With Grace was inspired by her passion for bold flavors, her African heritage and culture, fine cuisine and the celebration of life. At Dining With Grace, we focus on fresh ingredients, authentic flavors, and excellent service. Dining With Grace provides full-scale catering services to cultural institutions, social & community organizations, churches, non-profits, small businesses, corporations, retail locations and individuals seeking excellence in cultural cuisine. We also consult with several Brooklyn public schools teaching young students Nutritional Culinary Arts, customizing fun, healthy (and yummy!) recipes incorporating seasonal fruits and vegetables and whole grains. Our mission is to provide a delicious experience to our clients and to always offer our best to our community. Grace Odogbili was born and raised in Brooklyn, NY to Nigerian parents, Chris and Mary Odogbili. The youngest of 3 siblings, Grace grew up with entrepreneurship in her bones. From the time she was 8 years old, the Odogbili family has been in business for themselves, making it truly a family affair. Seeing the success story of her family who literally started off selling Bibles on the street into owning several commercial and residential properties always instilled in her the knowledge that passion, the desire to do the right thing and hard work always pays off. Ms. Odogbili received her BA degree from Stony Brook University in 2004 in Economics and Political Science, with the purpose of pursuing law school. During her senior year in college a turn in events led her to pursue a finance based career instead. After a series of jobs in the industry including UBS and the Federal Reserve Bank of New York, Grace landed a role at Banc of America Securities, LLC. in Sales and Trading Operations and there she begun to develop her career. After 4 years within the role, in 2009 due to the decline of the finance industry and a high profile acquisition, Grace’s team was dismembered and she was laid off. To her surprise, after a brief shock came a sense of relief and purpose. She decided at that point to pursue her dream of entrepreneurism in the culinary field and do what she’s been envisioning since her youth. Grace is now establishing her brand in the culinary world Dining With Grace. Currently a member of the Black Culinary Alliance and the National Association of Catering Executives, Chef Grace has been trained at the French Culinary Institute and is further pursuing her Masters Degree in Hospitality Management at the City College of Technology. Her goal is to continue to build an exclusive culinary brand, branching into the restaurant industry and pursuing future involvement in urban agriculture and a Healthy Culinary Academy program for inner-city children. Most importantly, Ms. Odogbili is excited about the opportunity to give back to her community. She thanks God for being the best Partner, her family for unconditional support, and all those who have allowed and encouraged her to pursue her dreams. With God Nothing is Impossible. Grace Odogbili www.diningwithgrace.com You may reach Grace at grace@diningwithgrace.com or 877-241-2121.

Jeannie Ferguson - BGU

2011-03-09T07:17:00.001-05:00

It was in 2002 that fashion designer; Tasha Hill decided to fulfill her desire to design clothing for plus size women. Some would argue why this tall and slender framed designer would have an interesting plus designs? How could she possibly know what would appeal to women whose bodies types differed from hers and who often could not readily find pieces that reflected sex appeal and sophistication while accentuating the art of curves? The answer was simple: her older sister and the face of BGU, Jeannie Ferguson. Weighing in at over three hundred pounds at one time, Jeannie rallied for the same modern fashion trends for the average plus size woman. Her feelings were if the current retail chains were not going to design, contemporary pieces with the fuller woman in mind, then it was time to do it themselves. Jeannie knew what it was like to shop for clothing and not find adequate pieces that lacked proper fit and sexy conservatism. Thus, she teamed up with Tasha and decided together they would become the brand that delivered what the fashion industry had been missing. The concepts they orchestrated for the debut of BGU (Big Girls United) were based on a combination of personal style, current trends, precise craftsmanship and careful garment selections. It was their goal to eliminate the idea that the curvy women had to hide their shape behind dark colors. BGU made their designs in bold vibrant colors that spoke volumes to consumer’s expectations. Tasha’s background in fashion design coupled, with Jeannie’s plus-size modeling expertise lead them to have a keen knowledge of the industry and how clothes can heighten confidence and self esteem if done tastefully and skillfully. BGU prides itself on providing trendy, contemporary, and ready to wear collections for the stylish curvy fashionista who likes to keep up with the ever changing styles in the world of fashion. The mission behind their designs is to unite all women of different ethnic backgrounds who embrace their curves and are full of self confidence by being secure with their bodies. BGU has and will continue to represent a lifestyle for women who understand that style is not dictated by size. With pieces that have been worn by celebrities such as R&B soul singer, Jazmine Sullivan and seen on the runway of noteworthy shows such as Full Figured Fashion Week, BK Fashion Weekend, and in publications such as Ebony Magazine, BGU is for women who are consciously choosing to flaunt their curves with fitting soft fabrics that show creativity, sass and flavor! Jeannie Ferguson BGU - BIG GIRLS UNITED www.biggirlsunited.com

Dhylles Waight - KatWalk Katerers

2011-03-08T07:37:00.001-05:00

KatWalk Katerers was created and founded by me Dhylles Waight and Business Partner and soon to be husband Dennis Davis. It has been a life long dream to own my coordinating and talent management company since I was 18 yrs when I coordinated my high school prom and my grandparents' wedding anniversary and birthday party. During that time I was also modeling with a group in Belize and was interested in a career in modeling but was not that confident about really getting into it until I was 31 yrs old. I started modeling in March 2008 and decided to try my hand in coordinating my first fashion show five months later in August of 2008 and never looked back. I have had over all a wonderful experience thus far modeling as well as coordinating and have always been asked by aspiring models to assist them in getting a modeling career going for themselves. Through my experiences and mistakes I am able to assist those in the right path and giving them the proper information to fulfill their dreams. KatWalk Katerers is a fashion event coordinating and talent managment company that has a variety of services. We coordinate Fashion Shows, Vending Expos, Fundraisers,Castings, Photoshoots, Internship Programs for students going to school for careers within the Entertainment Field and much more. Our company is a family oriented based business where all of our members are encouraged to utilize their many talents besides entertainment in order to further their dreams and aspirations. Our team is made up of all nationalities, shapes, sizes and height. Our main goal at KatWalk Katerers is to ensure that our team develops skills and experience that will enable to become their own employers in the future. -- Dhylles Waight Co-Founder & President of KatWalk Katerers, LLC www.KatWalkKaterers.com 347-863-4755 Dhylles Waight KatWalk Katerers www.KatWalkKaterers.com

Nanthale E. Collins - NEC Fashion and Image Consulting

2011-03-07T07:07:00.004-05:00

Nanthale E. Collins fashion career started with her own wardrobe. She always had a flair for great fashion and was complemented on her clothing selections wherever she went. Like most consultants she started her career by giving advice and styling tips to her friends and family. She grew her styling and people skills while working in a retail store. She perfected her skills in color selection, fitting and customer confidence. Her manager noticed her ability to teach customers and that knowledge made them come to their store more often. She started completing wardrobes & preparing outfit for her retail clients and gave workshops on fashion and dressing for success. Nanthale experience led her to work with a number of designers backstage at Mercedes-Benz Fashion Week NYC, Full Figured Fashion Week in NYC, Bridal Fashion Week and other fashion show production companies. Even though she graduated from Syracuse University with a degree in management and marketing she wanted to further her knowledge of fashion and enrolled into The Fashion Institute of Technology Certification Program. After completing her Certification in Image Consulting she took her knowledge of fashion, communication & shopping and started NEC Fashion and Image consulting in 2007. The goal of NEC Fashion & Image Consulting is to improve a person’s way of life through showing their best image. We help people and business do this in three ways. 1. Teaching individuals and group about fashion through personal styling, workshops and fashion articles 2. Consulting fashion professional in having a better image to increase their business 3. Working with designers to present the best fashion shows possible N.E.C. image and styling clients included lawyers, actors, fashion designers and local politicians. But, the labor of love is the young adult groups in the inner city. Teaching them to dress for success and interviewing skills is our way of giving back to the community. N.E.C. fashion workshops are done for retail stores, private companies and even in clients homes. We have styled photo shoots, assist on editorials for Glamour magazine and conceptualize fashion shows for designers all over NYC. Our motto “When a person looks their best they do their best. I see how fashion builds confidence and with confidents anything becomes possible.” Nanthale E. Collins NEC Fashion and Image Consulting http://necfashionconsulting.blogspot.com

NeNe Leakes

2011-03-06T08:38:00.001-05:00

"I'm giving you the T, honey!" -NeNe Leakes "I would love to just act. I would love to have my own show. Yes, honey, The NeNe Show. I want to be like a black Lucille Ball."—NeNe Leakes "I’m very excited about “The Real Housewives of Atlanta.” We’re going to bring a lot of fun, a lot of drama. We are five fun, fabulous girls. We’re very smart, we’re businesswomen, we’re go-getters, we’re moms."—NeNe Leakes "I'm not ashamed of anything I've ever done and I'm not afraid to tell you" - Nene Leakes "Kim, that's a dirty low down monkey with a wig on!!"-NeNe Leakes "I don't keep up with the Joneses, I am the Joneses." -NeNe Leakes "I'm a size 10. I could be a size 8 if i wanted to, but i'm effin hungry," good words of wisdom by NeNe Leakes. .

MAE WEST

2011-03-05T07:54:00.002-05:00

A dame that knows the ropes isn't likely to get tied up. Mae West A hard man is good to find. Mae West A man can be short and dumpy and getting bald but if he has fire, women will like him. Mae West A man has one hundred dollars and you leave him with two dollars, that's subtraction. Mae West A man in the house is worth two in the street. Mae West A man's kiss is his signature. Mae West A woman in love can't be reasonable - or she probably wouldn't be in love. Mae West All discarded lovers should be given a second chance, but with somebody else. Mae West An ounce of performance is worth pounds of promises. Mae West Any time you got nothing to do - and lots of time to do it - come on up. Mae West Any time you've got nothing to do and lots of time to do it come on up. Mae West Anything worth doing is worth doing slowly. Mae West Between two evils, I always pick the one I never tried before. Mae West Cultivate your curves - they may be dangerous but they won't be avoided. Mae West Don't keep a man guessing too long - he's sure to find the answer somewhere else. Mae West Don't marry a man to reform him - that's what reform schools are for. Mae West Every man I meet wants to protect me. I can't figure out what from. Mae West Give a man a free hand and he'll run it all over you. Mae West He who hesitates is a damned fool. Mae West He's the kind of man a woman would have to marry to get rid of. Mae West His mother should have thrown him out and kept the stork. Mae West I always say, keep a diary and someday it'll keep you. Mae West I believe in censorship. I made a fortune out of it. Mae West I believe that it's better to be looked over than it is to be overlooked. Mae West I didn't discover curves; I only uncovered them. Mae West I enjoyed the courtroom as just another stage but not so amusing as Broadway. Mae West I generally avoid temptation unless I can't resist it. Mae West I like a man who's good, but not too good - for the good die young, and I hate a dead one. Mae West I like restraint, if it doesn't go too far. Mae West I never loved another person the way I loved myself. Mae West I never worry about diets. The only carrots that interest me are the number you get in a diamond. Mae West I only have 'yes' men around me. Who needs 'no' men? Mae West I only like two kinds of men, domestic and imported. Mae West I see you're a man with ideals. I better be going before you've still got them. Mae West I speak two languages, Body and English. Mae West I used to be Snow White, but I drifted. Mae West I'd like to see Paris before I die. Philadelphia will do. Mae West I'll try anything once, twice if I like it, three times to make sure. Mae West I'm a woman of very few words, but lots of action. Mae West I'm no model lady. A model's just an imitation of the real thing. Mae West Born: 17-Aug-1893 Birthplace: Brooklyn, NY Died: 22-Nov-1980 Location of death: Hollywood, CA

Sheneese Starr & Lytoya Parker "The In Your Face Movement"

2011-03-04T10:30:00.005-05:00

This ‘sickness’ plagues many people all across the United States. While we have had our series of Awareness Rallies in New York, we are COLLECTIVELY coming together from different corners of the world as we March TO Washington and Conclude our series of Rallies with the biggest of them all: in Washington D.C… IYF has been purposed to dispel the popular misconceptions, along with bringing about the awareness and ‘true’ education regarding the Prison Industry, the Prison Business. The Walk to Washington’s sole purpose is to spread awareness on a larger scale; causing people to look, think and then take CONTINUED action until we achieve our desired outcome. The W2W has a purpose of sending a message to the masses and our loved ones incarcerated a like that we haven’t forgotten about the oppressed housed behind the prison walls and that we too are aware of the ‘true’ agenda of the Prison Industry. We are walking for those whom have had their rights and hope walked upon! We are walking to BEGIN the process of ‘freeing’ an ‘unfree’ society. We look forward to you joining us REGISTER @ www.walktowashington.eventbrite.com More Information Contact: Sheneese Starr @ 610-802.0003 or informreform@aol.com Sheneese Starr The In Your Face Movement www.inyourface.us

ShaChena Gibbs - Real Sisters Rising, LLC.

2011-03-03T06:36:00.002-05:00

I am passionate about..."Helping Women find the Diamond in their Destiny" Women’s Empowerment Advocate, ShaChena Gibbs, is the founder and president of Real Sisters Rising, LLC. Her tireless work of empowering women to become self sustaining via entrepreneurship has resulted in her national recognition as an expert in direct sales and personal development. ShaChena is a sought after speaker and networking guru. She spends the better part of her day “Helping Women find the Diamond in their Destiny.” Through her company, ShaChena provides coaching sessions and resources to the women in her community. She speaks throughout the country at various events and at her organization’s chapter meetings; the RSR network boasts members of various ethnicities and professions. Her leadership experience helps her excel as a leader various MLM companies, like AVON; a company known for the personal and professional development of women and Chapter President for Black Business Works (Bronx, NY). She has been featured in numerous publications, including The New York Daily News; her articles have been broadly published throughout the internet. ShaChena resides in New York and is the proud mother to Diamond and Destiny. ShaChena Gibbs …..“Helping Women find the Diamond in their Destiny” ShaChena Gibbs www.realsistersrising.com

Andrene Williams - Global Elite Virtual Assistant Services

2011-03-02T07:17:00.003-05:00

Andrene Williams is the Founder/CEO of Ladydoves Self Enrichment Organization, 501 (3) (C) certified, non-profit youth organization (www.ladydoves.org,) CEO of Global Elite Virtual Assistant Services (www.mygevas.com,), Columnist for the Trend Newspaper (name of column is H.O.P.E., Helping Our People Excel. HOPE primary focus is the youth), Host ( with her partner Makeda Campbell) of the M.A.C. show which is a blog talk radio show that speaks on issues about everyday life situation (Real Talk by Real Women, they cover it all. www.blogtalkradio.com/themacshow), a notary, licensed real estate salesperson and a graduated nurse. Ms. Williams was born in Jamaica West Indies. As a child, she moved to the United States and resided in Queens, New York. Ladydoves Self Enrichment Organization, LSEO, was started in 2008. The purpose of LSEO is to provide services for underprivileged kids. They will cater to children and young adults from six (6) years to young adults. Provide scholarships, individual and group tutoring, after-school and summer programs, financial assistance for children of low income families to attend summer camp, career advisement, job preparedness programs, forum for women and also their mentoring program. LSEO mentoring program will be available in-house as well as in various areas like foster care, schools and facilities that are in need of their services, and eventually their own facility as well. The goal of their mentoring program (Rising Phoenix) is to empower and enrich the lives of our youths by providing mentors that will share their life experiences to increase a youth’s self-esteem and self-worth, as well as nourishing their ability to be productive and efficient - to reach their full potential. Their youth group S.O.U.L. which was formed in 10/2010 was composed to help teach children how to be future entrepreneurs. Global Elite Virtual Assistant Services, GEVAS, was formed as a result of being laid off from her health administration position. She knew she had to find alternate means to take care of her financial obligations. She wanted to find a job that will enable her to utilize her experience while working at her own convenience. What she enjoys the most about what she does in GEVAS is being able to make people’s vision of being an entrepreneur a reality by helping clients get their business license. GEVAS treat your business like their own therefore they go above and beyond to give you excellent quality services. Before starting your own business, here are a few tips she would like to offer:  Do your research to find out the need for the services that you will be offering  Make sure that you have available funds to cover you while your building your company  Put a business plan together- the blueprint  Do a name search to make sure the name you selected is available  OBTAIN YOUR BUSINESS LICENSE These are just a few of the steps to follow. If you don’t have the time to do these steps then contact GEVAS and they will do it for you at awilliams@mygevas.com Andrene Williams www.mygevas.com

Michelle Wild - MWildPhotography

2011-03-01T07:50:00.002-05:00

As a kid my passion was always toward being creative. I started as a painter, but making money off of something you are passionate about is not an easy task. Never giving up, I believed I could make living being creative. About 15 years ago all the signs were pointed towards photography. I went for it and decided to go back to school and get a degree in commercial photography. For the last 9 years I have been shooting freelance, and love what I do. . I have been commissioned to shoot a wide variety of high-profile events in the course of my career, photographing people has always been my passion. My ability to help clients relax and feel comfortable in front of the lens is just as important as the creativity and experience I bring to a shoot. Michelle Wild www.mwildphotography.com

Celebrating Women's History Month

2011-02-24T19:12:00.002-05:00

Blissful Elegance Events will honor 31 Extraodinary women for the month of March

Celebrating 14 Days of Love!! You've Got a Friend in Me

2011-02-15T06:44:00.000-05:00

TAZ & TWEETY

How did you meet?

At work, we worked at a messy dirty place and he showed up for his first day in a white shirt and black slacks and was teamed up with the laziest person in the world. I laughed at him and felt sorry for him all at the same time and he just thought I was cute and set out to meet me. Truthfully we were just drawn to each other it felt like we’ve known each other for years.

How did you know he or she was the one?

Because he got me! My dry sense of humor, my zoning out, my short snappy replies he never judged me just accepted that this is me flaws and all.

What advice would you give a young couple?

Don’t sweat the small stuff enjoy everything because time isn’t promised to anyone

What advice would you give to someone looking for “the One”?

You two will find each other when the time is right

How long have you been together?

We aren’t I have known him for 17 years we still love each other and maintain a great friendship he is my best “male” friend

Celebrating 14 Days of Love!! My Funny Valentine

2011-02-14T06:37:00.000-05:00

THOMAS & YVETTE 1. How did you & your spouse meet? Thomas and I meet through my godsister Jessica Jordan. Thomas actually bought me for a $1. He used it to bribe my daughter Tyaisha age 4 at the time to get a picture of me for him. 2. How long have you been together? We have been together since September 1993, we married February 14, 1996. Same year Prince married Mayte Garcia. 3. How did you know he or she was the one? I knew Thomas was the one when I despite all the drama I put the man through he was always there loving and supporting me even when I did not believe in myself. 4. What advice would you give a young couple? Spend time alone together as a couple and travel to different countries to experience the world together. Once you begin a family this may become difficult to do so seize the opportunity to spend real quality time together and see other places and experience new things together. 5. What advice would you give to someone looking for "The One"? Really know yourself then you will really know what you need not just what you want. I do not believe your better half completes you. You and your mate should be two complete people who come together to complement and balance each other strengths and weaknesses.

Celebrating 14 Days of Love - Adore

2011-02-12T09:50:00.000-05:00

LONNIE & TANISHA How did you meet?

We were at a club and he asked if he could take a pic of me. I said sure and me and my friends posed for the pic. A couple of weeks we were at another club and he ignored me. He came up to my brother and spoke with him. Side note I was standing right next to him and he claimed he didnt see me. Later that night I made eye contact and he made his way over to me and I asked why was he ignoring me. He stated he didnt see due to the fact he was promoting a party his club was giving. And I made so smart comment and we have been together ever since.

How did you know he or she was the one?

Lonnie - After having conversations and getting to know each other it became apparent she held the qualities that I was looking for in a mate. Tanisha - I knew he was the one when I didnt have any copy paper in my house for my son to do a paper due to the fact his biological father used it all. I had just bough paper the week before. He drove from queens to Bk to bring me a ream of paper. Another thing was he bought me a laptop computer after i was always complaining my computer was not working properly or running out of ink. I really believe he would move heaven or earth for me or anyone dear to me.

What advice would you give a young couple?

Lonnie - Be patient and understanding of your significant other. Tanisha - Be your partner's friend. Remember to listen to one another with out inflicting your emotions on their words. Have fun!!!! life is to short you have to laugh with one another. Remember no one is perfect. Keep the romance alive... a surprise love or text goes a long way.

What advice would you give to someone looking for "that One"?

Lonnie - Know what you can accept and what you can not in a mate. Let the other person know. Communication is the key to a good relationship. Expressing your feeling, thoughts desires and goals make understanding and a loving relationship possible. Tanisha - Take advantage of every chance to meet and interact with people. Know what your likes and dislikes in a mate. Be flexible but not a doormat. Take your time to know one another and share different experiences with each other. Observe how they interact and behave with their family and friends. Honesty is a must with yourself and your partner. Communication is key.

How long have you been together?

We have been together for almost 2 years.

Celebrating 14 Days of Love - Baby Come to Me

2011-02-11T19:27:00.004-05:00

MICHAEL & IVETTE How did you meet?

Ivette: Michael and I have known each other since 1980 when we attended Brooklyn Tech High School. We knew about each other because he was friends with my brother. We didn’t date until we were in our mid-20s. That’s when he asked me to marry him. I said yes, and then he disappeared on me. We didn’t see each other for 17 years, until he found me on FaceBook

How did you know he or she was the one?

Ivette: We had a love for each other that spanned 17 years. Michael doesn’t judge me and I feel like I can be myself around him. He feels the same way about me. I always knew that Michael and I would cross paths again and that although we weren’t meant to be together in our 20s, we would eventually be together again. Michael is my one of my best friends. Michael: I would have to agree.....we can be ourselves around each other no matter how crazy "ourselves" are.

What advice would you give a young couple?

Michael: You must be friends to each other. Hopefully the best of friends because when all else fails you will still have a great friend. Ivette: Ditto!

What advice would you give to someone looking for "that One"?

Ivette: There is no such thing as a “perfect” relationship. You have to find someone whose life baggage you can deal with. Michael: I would have to agree.....again! There is NO "ONE". You could have great relationships with different people.... BUT each relationship will be different. Just like sweet potato pie and chocolate cake, you LOVE them BOTH but they are very different. The "ONENESS" comes from your commitment to each other to fight through the rough times and showing the other person that they are worth fighting for to maintain a great relationship.

How long have you been together?

Ivette: Physically, 2 years and 9 months. Spiritually, we’ve been together 20 years. Michael: Ditto.......

Celebrating 14 Days of Love!! At Last

2011-02-10T06:23:00.001-05:00

LAWRENCE & STEFFANY

1.How did you meet?

Lawrence and I met in 1996 when I saw him on the day he interviewed with the company where I worked.

2. How did you know he or she was the one?

I knew he would be my husband the first moment I saw him. I just felt it!! But it took me a while to convince him of that so I had to be patient and wait...and wait...and wait!

3. What advice would you give a young couple?

Be patient. Be honest. Be willing to compromise. Be true to yourself. Be ready to share and communicate.

4. What advice would you give to someone looking for "that One"?

Before you can make "lists" about what you want in a mate, you must first know who you are and that takes time. Once you know who you are, you have to be open and receptive to what God has for you. More than likely, most of the points on your "list" are based on the material standards and jaded perceptions of other people. Over time you will see that the "list" doesn't even matter. But what does matter is if that person makes your heart warm, do they make you laugh and smile, are they genuinely concerned about your well being, etc. In my opinion, if sentiments like that are on your list, then everything else, like the material things, will all come naturally!

5. How long have you been together?

Ok here's the breakdown: We met in 1996 and started dating in 1997. Sadly we broke up in 2002 but we got back together in 2008 and were married September 24, 2010!!

Celebrating 14 Days of Love!! I knew you were waiting for me

2011-02-09T06:13:00.001-05:00

DHYLLES AND DENNIS

1. How did you meet?

We met on Dec.18th 2008 and are in love with each other more now than two yrs ago. He literally changed my life. When I met Dennis I on a whirlwind of depression and anxiety. I did not know what I wanted and who I was and Dennis made it his obligation to love me unconditionally no matter how much I pushed him away because I had no love for myself. He helped me realized I was worth loving myself and that I am not perfect and mistakes are always going to be made but that I should be able to forgive myself and move on to brighter days. He took care of me as a woman and as a human being. This is truly the first time in my life I ever had a man love me for me and first time in my life I actually know what it feels like to have unconditional love and to be in love. I have been through so much abuse from sexual to mental abuse from the age of 7 and it was all I knew growing up so meeting him was such a wonderful breathe of fresh air and a gift from God.

2. How did you know he or she was the one?

I knew he was the one because the first he looked at me on our first date my heart dropped and that never happened to me before and when we had phone conversations we would say the same things at the same time simultaneously.

3. What advice what you give a young couple?

Young couple should learnto build each other up as opposed to tear each other down at the first site of argument and allow their partner to be who they are with accepting their flaws, faults and imperfections. They have to be willing and able to make positive changes within themselves for the other person.

4. What advice would you give to someone looking for "that One"?

Discover who you are, love and accept yourself in order for you to love and accept whoever comes into your life that could be the one. Once you are complete and happy within your heart, soul, mind and spirit you will be so aware when the ones comes around it will be felt in your heart and you will know.

5. How long have you been together?

2 yrs on Dec. 18th 2010

Celebrating 14 Days of Love!! Give Me You

2011-02-08T06:33:00.000-05:00

STEVE & NINA

1.How did you meet?

We actually had 2 encounters. The first time was when my friend was throwing a surprise birthday party for her boyfriend at the time. We met, I beat him in dominoes and parted ways. Almost a year later that same friend and boyfriend were now getting married and we both attended. We were introduced, again…. This time my friend did not let him leave without talking to me, of course he did, we exchanged #’s and the rest is history.

2.How did you know he or she was the one?

This is weird….but Im sure the ladies will agree. I knew he was the one when he took out a sew in weave that I was wearing! I was shocked! I was even more shocked when I allowed him to see the after affects…lol That’s when I knew, that this one was something special.

3. What advice would you give a young couple?

I would tell ANY couple, to keep your partner smiling/laughing!!!!!!! Humor can cure anything.

4. What advice would you give to someone looking for "that One"?

My advice to anyone looking for “that one” would be to STOP LOOKING! When “you’re” ready he/she will find you.

5. How long have you been together?

I’ve known him for 6 years, but have officially had him on my back for 4! lol

Celebrating 14 Days of Love!! I’ll be there for you

2011-02-07T06:33:00.000-05:00

DIESEL & LISA My crazy mother convinced my brother to buy me a subscription to Match.com for my birthday because in her opinion I should have been in a serious relationship when I was nearing my late 20s and not a single woman roaming around NYC and enjoying the single life. So, just to annoy the hell out of her I never logged in to Match, until I was bored at home and was like, what the hell...I can always get a free dinner if the date doesn't work out. Diesel "winked" at me, and I was not going to reply. I actually shut down my computer and said to myself forget it...I wasn't going to put up satisfying my mother and go on a date, it probably wouldn't work out anyways. But I guess curiosity got the better of me and I replied to him. We started chatting on line, and a few weeks later decided to meet up. Our choice of location was not the best-Dave and Busters in Times Square. So after getting a bite to eat we decided to leave. I figured as we left I can go left to Port Authority and he could go right to the subway if he wasn't interested. Instead he decided to lets go out for some coffee. A couple of days later he braved the bar and met all of my coworkers...and a few days after that we had our first date at the movies. The rest is history...We're married now 4 years after. He's the most supportive and loving husband...

If I Ever Fall In Love

2011-02-06T06:38:00.000-05:00

The very first time That I saw your brown eyes Your lips said hello and I said hi I knew right then you were the one But I was caught up In physical attraction But to my satisfaction Baby you were more than just a face And if I ever (ever fall) in love again (again) I will be sure that the lady is a friend And if I ever (ever fall) in love so true (true) I will be sure that the lady's just like you Oh, yeah, the very next time she'll be my friend If I say that I will be your one and only (promise, promise) Promise that you'll never leave me lonely I just wanna be the one you need Oh, baby I just wanna be the one who serves you Sometime I feel as if I don't deserve you I cherish every moment that we share *chorus* (repeat) Very next time she will be my friend Someone who I can believe in (my friend) I need someone who'll be my friend (my friend) To be with me through thick and thin (my friend) Please share my love with me my friend I need someone like you

I wanna love you and treat you right

2011-02-05T06:37:00.001-05:00

wanna love you and treat you right; I wanna love you every day and every night: We'll be together with a roof right over our heads; We'll share the shelter of my single bed; We'll share the same room, yeah! - for Jah provide the bread. Is this love - is this love - is this love - Is this love that I'm feelin'? Is this love - is this love - is this love - Is this love that I'm feelin'? I wanna know - wanna know - wanna know now! I got to know - got to know - got to know now! I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I - I'm willing and able, So I throw my cards on your table! I wanna love you - I wanna love and treat - love and treat you right; I wanna love you every day and every night: We'll be together, yeah! - with a roof right over our heads; We'll share the shelter, yeah, oh now! - of my single bed; We'll share the same room, yeah! - for Jah provide the bread. Is this love - is this love - is this love - Is this love that I'm feelin'? Is this love - is this love - is this love - Is this love that I'm feelin'? Wo-o-o-oah! Oh yes, I know; yes, I know - yes, I know now! Yes, I know; yes, I know - yes, I know now! I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I - I'm willing and able, So I throw my cards on your table! See: I wanna love ya, I wanna love and treat ya - love and treat ya right. I wanna love you every day and every night: We'll be together, with a roof right over our heads! We'll share the shelter of my single bed; We'll share the same room, yeah! Jah provide the bread. We'll share the shelter of my single bed - /fadeout/

Celebrating 14 Days of Love!! All you need in the world is love and laughter

2011-02-04T06:42:00.001-05:00

SURESH & NALINI

1)How did you meet?

We met for the first time at a mutual friends engagement party but didn't really begin thinking of each other romantically until months later.

2)How did you know he or she was the one?

For me, it was the fact that he made everyone around him laugh, and that he's religious.

3)What advice would you give a young couple?

TALK - make sure you understand that the person you see in front of you won't change because a ring is on their finger.

4)What advice would you give to someone looking for "that One"?

Leave your options open. Having a list is great but understanding that your must haves won't come in a tall, dark and handsome package is important.

5)How long have you been together?

We've been married for 2 years, and dated a year prior.

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Celebrating 14 Days of Love!! It Takes Two

2011-02-03T06:40:00.002-05:00

SHARON AND STACEY

1. How did you meet?

Stacey and I met when I used to frequent a restaurant where he was a cook. I'd been going there for years with my family. He would always stare at me and I would glance at him. We were both married to other people at the time. Finally, one day, he asked me for my phone number. Unbeknownst to us, both of our marriages had gone south about a year prior to that day....

2. How did you know he or she was the one?

SHARON: I knew he was the one when he saw the bad parts of me and didn't run! I also knew he was the one when we started wanting to spend all of our time together. I mean WHO spends THAT much time together? We spend ALOT of time together...LOL STACEY: I knew Shay was the one for me because I 'm pretty shy and I never felt so comfortable around someone in my whole life. I never met a woman that had everything I loved and wanted wrapped up in one person. Then I started wanting to be with her vs. being anywhere else. That’s when I knew she was the one.

3. What advice what you give a young couple?

SHARON: I don't believe in "young couples"... if we're talking age...so I have no advice for them. I actually believe there should be a minimum age for someone to be in an exclusive relationship. You just don't know what you're doing or what to look for in a person if you're too young. If we're talking about a "young couple" relationship wise (a new relationship vs. age of the couple) I would say take it very slow, don't let sex cloud your feelings, don't act desperate and go with your gut. STACEY: I believe people get into serious relationships at too young of an age also. You should date different people first so that when you settle down you're ready to be faithful and committed

4. What advice would you give to someone looking for "that One"?

SHARON: there is no "that one". God has a wonderful sense of humor! If I went by the "right guy for me" formula, Stacey would be the anti-"that one". We are so different in a whole host of ways. But those ways seem to blend, compliment and strengthen our relationship vs. divide it. STACEY: My advice is you may look all your life and not find "that one". So stop looking with that goal in mind. I found the one for me and I feel very fortunate.

5. How long have you been together?

He told me in the beginning that we were going to be together forever. I said "yeah, yeah". I wasn't even looking for anything long term or serious. Ten years later.......

Celebrating 14 Days of Love!! You Are My Everything

2011-02-02T06:23:00.001-05:00

MICHELLE & JNESS

1. How did you & your spouse meet?

JNESS and I met the day before Christmas Eve 1990 on the L train in New York around 1:30am. We have not been apart since that day :-).

2. How long have you been together?

We have been together for 20 years and will be celebrating our 19th wedding anniversary on March 7, 2011.

3. How did you know he or she was the one?

I knew he was the one because he brought laughter back into my life. He renewed my hope in love, and in my self. He nurtured that "little girl" inside of me. He had goals for his life that included me. He wanted to raise an awesome family with me being their mother and accepted every curve my body had.

4. What advice would you give a young couple?

Talk alot, nurture each others dreams. Involve each other in decisions.Respect each others space, thoughts, values. Most of all pray for one another. Prayer will get you through situations quicker than any person will.

5. What advice would you give to someone looking for "The One"?

Stop looking. Love will find you. You'll know what it looks like when it arrives. Your life will feel complete.

Celebrating 14 Days of Love!! 35 years and still going strong

2011-02-01T06:33:00.003-05:00

MR & MRS KEN MURPHY

1. How did you meet?

Our families were at a convention for Jehovah's Witnesses and I happen to be in the pizza shop nearby talking to a friend of hers when she walked in an walked over to the juke box (lol yes juke box) and she was looking to get change so I played big spender and put a quarter on the thing and she said thank you. I asked for her number and the rest is history. That was 1975

2. How did you know he or she was the one?

Well once we started talking on the phone and made my moms phone bill real high lol I knew she better be the one, actually when we started writing letters and I would recite old songs (from the 70's) to her in my letters as ways to say how I felt. But even before that I went to her school Nov 1st 1975 because it was Black Solidarity day and we walked around Fordham Road in the Bronx then we went around her way and I met her older sister (R.I.P) and I said I'm going to marry your sister (I was a prophet) lol once I said that my whole insides changed and felt good. so we got engaged Dec 16 1976 and got married July 1st 1978.

3. What advice would you give a young couple?

Remember the qualities you found in your mate and realize they are still there, the more you search elsewhere the less you will see them at home. Understand being together is a union that each of you share, its 50/50 because its not always about money if you dont have enough she may say I got it this month but you can do other things to offset the load. Understand that communication is sooooo important cause if you allow things to fester one day it will explode. I never go to bed upset or mad we always go to bed peaceful. Resolve all your issues or at least enough to insure both of you end the day happy with the soloution.

4. What advice would you give to someone looking for "that One"?

To stop!!! you don't need to look, how many times do we look for something and settle for less? When we go to the store for something and dont see it we come out with something that soon as we get home we go dayum I didn't want this. So I didn't go looking it just happened. Continue to build a relationship with yourself and the Lord so when you do meet him/her you will know who you are and can better built a lasting relationship. BE YOURSELF!!

5. How long have you been together?

WOW I met my wife in Oct 75 we got engaged Dec 16th 1976 and got Married July 1st 1978 so its been 35 years.

Nadine Eans - C.B.N.’s Mobile Day Spa

2009-03-31T01:45:00.001-04:00

Nadine Eans is a Skin Care Consultant, Certified Skin Analyst and Derma Options Consultant. Nadine has seven years experience in the skin care industry and received training in 2003 from Crowning Touch Institute as a Certified Skin Analyst and in 2006 as a Derma Options Consultant, offering her clients a wide range of derma options to such procedures as Botox, Microdermabrassion and Chemical Peels. In 2003 Nadine officially launched C.B.N.’s Mobile Day Spa, which brings the luxury of spa services to clients in the comfort of their own home, office, hotel or location of their choice. Services include skin analysis and consultation, a wide variety of facials, hand treatments and massage services. C.B.N.’s Mobile Day Spa caters to a wide variety of clients for individual services, skin care consultations, bachelorette parties, spa parties for any occasion and corporate events. C.B.N.’s Mobile Day Spa has been featured in Time Out NY’s 2005 Spa Issue, NJ’s Herald News in January 2007 and The Northeastern Pennsylvania Business Journal, NJ and Westchester Health & Life Magazines. C.B.N.’s Mobile Day Spa has provided spa services to such clients as 98.7 Kiss FM, Budd Larner, Chai Lifeline, Conde Naste, Ecko Unlimited, Fashion Institute of Technology, Genzyme Biosurgery, MAMCO Property Management, and Susan G. Komen Breast Cancer Foundation.

Quote o fthe Day

2009-03-31T01:30:00.001-04:00

I may be compelled to face danger, but never fear it, and while our soldiers can stand and fight, I can stand and feed and nurse them. Clara Barton

Mae West

2009-03-30T09:44:00.001-04:00

Born: 17-Aug-1893 Birthplace: Brooklyn, NY Died: 22-Nov-1980 Location of death: Hollywood, CA Cause of death: Stroke Remains: Buried, Cypress Hills Cemetery, Brooklyn, NY Gender: Female Religion: Protestant Race or Ethnicity: White Sexual orientation: Straight Occupation: Actor Nationality: United States Executive summary: Go up and see her sometime Mae West was an American screen legend and erotic icon famous for her voluptuous figure, sexy innuendos, and irrepressible wit. A free thinking and independent woman far ahead of her time, West expressed herself boldly, both sexually and creatively. She famously surrounded herself with handsome muscle men, both onscreen and off, and accrued a long list of famous and powerful lovers. Notably, West was one of the first female American playwrights, and actresses, to demand and receive creative control over her work. West’s creative expression encompassed nearly every facet of the entertainment spectrum including theatre and screenwriting, film, radio, television, and audio recording. And with a career spanning some 80+ years, she holds the further distinction of having performed both vaudeville and rock and roll. As a cultural icon she is immortalized by imitators, biographers, and even an assortment of snacks and devices bearing her name. Her trademark phrases have been translated into numerous languages, including Mandarin, Mongolian, Norwegian, and Lithuanian. She was born Mary Jane West on August 17, 1893 in Brooklyn, New York. Her father, the bare knuckles prizefighter Battlin’ Jack West, was a native New Yorker from the lower east side. A heavy smoker and drinker, he turned to violence when thwarted. Her mother, "Tillie", was a former corset and fashion model, and frustrated actress, who had immigrated to America from Germany with her parents. Curiously, although Mae West always claimed that Tillie was Jewish, records show that the family listed their religion as Lutheran upon arrival in America. West’s paternal grandmother had also immigrated as a child -- an Irish Catholic, she married Mae’s paternal grandfather, John Edwin, while only 12 years old. Edwin’s own ancestry remains enigmatic. But according to West biographer Jill Watts, he may have been a light-skinned African American who passed for white. Arising from this milieu of adversity, Mae learned early on that her unusual talent and good looks were an advantage that just might leverage her into a better life – if she played it smart. Encouraged by her mother, she used her sexuality to build alliances with, or dominate, nearly every man who crossed her path. And she learned to view marriage as a double edged institution – one that offered legal protection and social acceptance, but which robbed women of their independence and sexual freedom. According to most sources she took refuge in marriage just once, with fellow actor and lover Frank Wallace. When she tired of Wallace, and discovered she was not pregnant as feared, she ended the relationship. She neglected to file for divorce however, and Wallace showed up years later, in 1937, with marriage certificate in hand to receive a share of West’s ample earnings. She may have been simultaneously married to musician Guido Deiro, divorcing him in 1920. West allegedly used the alias Catherine Mae Belle West when marrying Deiro to avoid bigamy charges. While West’s attitudes toward men were heavily influenced by her mother so was her choice of career. Tillie West had once longed to follow in the footsteps of idol Lillian Russell, even having her portrait painted in such way as to highlight a certain resemblance. She started Mae off in show business as early as age 5, according to some reports, and by age 7 Mae had won the gold medal in a talent show, with Tillie billing her as "Baby Mae". By age 12 she was appearing on the vaudeville circuit and was soon performing as the sexy "Baby Vamp". At 18 she introduced vaudeville to the "shimmy", a sexy full body undulation that she’d first observed in the blues bars of Chicago. In the 1920s she had moved on to playwriting. A shameless self promoter, she is said to have single billed herself on works that were in fact jointly authored. Nonetheless both on the stage and later in film she showed tremendous wit and intelligence for writing dialogue, especially for those parts she played herself. But while West is chiefly remembered for her clever dialogue and powerhouse sensuality, much of her work dealt also with spiritual matters and West was herself a deeply and eclectically spiritual person for most of her life. Not surprisingly, her tendency toward frankness and maverick free thinking, on all subjects, often put her at odds with moralists and hard line religious leaders. Her first major run in with censorship laws came in 1926 when she was jailed for the play Sex, which she both wrote and starred in. West was sentenced to 10 days in jail on obscenity charges. However she allegedly received star treatment in prison, dining each night with the warden and getting two days off for good behavior. Despite this fact she was sympathetic to those less fortunate, and upon her release she penned an article about the women she’d met behind bars. Putting her money where her mouth was, she also made a donation on their behalf to fund a prison library. In 1927 West was back in trouble again. Her new play Drag, about a homosexual party, was a big hit in New Jersey. But it was banned from Broadway and was soon bogged down in extensive legal battles. She bounced back the following year with her naughty, but more acceptable Diamond Lil. Not only was it a big hit on Broadway, but it more significantly catapulted her toward Hollywood stardom. West debuted on film in 1932 with what was supposed to be a small part in Night After Night, starring George Raft. However West insisted on rewriting all her lines, and the result was pure gold – for West and for the film. Building on this success West was able to translate her Broadway play Diamond Lil to the big screen as She Done Him Wrong in 1933. Audiences went wild, and the film was a huge success, garnering an Academy Award nomination and catapulting male lead Cary Grant, to stardom. What’s more the picture saved its studio, Paramount Pictures, from bankruptcy. West’s next film, I’m No Angel, was also a big hit with moviegoers. But her empowered sexuality and ribald wit, that so entranced movie goers, incensed religious leaders and moralists. The Catholic Church in particular launched a campaign to put an end to the "filth" churned out by West, and to an extent, by the studios in general. By July of 1934 Hollywood was being squeezed toward more exact compliance with the strict Motion Picture Production Code. Since West was not one to give in easily and she managed for a while to pull a clever bait and switch with the censors. She laded scripts with obvious material for them to cut, while slipping in more subtle elements they would overlook. Most famous of these were her sly double entendres, lines she rolled out with such droll understatement that fans were never quite sure what was a straight line and what was intentional innuendo. But censors could not be duped indefinitely, not with more clever moralists writing them outraged letters. And so West found her work in Hollywood more and more constrained. She churned out several more films, including My Little Chickadee, in which she starred alongside nemesis W. C. Fields (1940). But 1943’s The Heat’s On proved to be her last offering, until her film rebirth in the 1970s. For the next few decades she returned her attention to writing and performing for the more liberal environment of the stage. One of West’s favorite roles was her 1944 Broadway production of Catherine Was Great. West’s version of the famed Russian empress was a woman after her own heart – a powerful, lusty, independent woman who surrounded herself with tall muscle men. According to West, an ardent spiritualist, this likeness was appropriate as she herself was the reincarnation of Catherine the Great. Like the historic Catherine, West’s identity as a sexual titan who seemed untarnished by age. West still demanded daily sex well into her 60s and held onto a girlish figure through an assortment of eccentric practices. According to West, she avoided sunlight to preserve her skin, massaged her breasts for two hours a day with cold cream to keep them firm, had her men massage warm baby oil into her skin to keep it soft, and began each day with an enema to rid her body of toxins and keep her skin silky smooth. Determined never to be a "has been" (she hotly turned down Billy Wilder’s invitation to lay Norma Desmond in Sunset Strip) West frequently managed to reinvent and reintroduce herself to the American public. She had her own Las Vegas show in the 1950s. And in the 1960s, she appeared on the album sleeve for The Beatles "Sgt Pepper's Lonely Hearts Club Band", she popped up on a number of popular television programs (including The Red Skelton Show and Mr. Ed), and she even cut two rock and roll albums. In 1970 she at last returned to the big screen with Gore Vidal's Myra Breckinridge. But although the time seemed ripe for West's bawdy humor to make a come back, with society and censors more open to sexuality, age was catching up with her. Now in her mid 80s, she was struggling with diabetes and other ailments. During the 1978 filming of Sextette, her last film, she often needed to rest during scenes. And she forgot her lines so often that it was necessary to fit her with an earpiece so she could be prompted with her lines. But the indomitable Mae insisted on playing a woman in her late 20s, and she behaved as if she were still the knockout sex goddess that every man wanted to make love too. Despite such handicaps and eccentricities her co-stars would remember West as a grand lady. And when the film finally premiered her cult of longtime fans still found her adorable and embraced Sextette, viewing the flaws of the film as delightful self-parody. But the public in general was not so impressed and despite added talent from the likes of Timothy Dalton, Ringo Starr, George Hamilton, Tony Curtis, Walter Pidgeon and George Raft, the film fell flat at the box office. Two years later West’s decline culminated in a series of strokes, and she died on November 22, 1980 from stroke related complications. Two days later her former lover and longtime friend, George Raft, who had co-starred with West in both her first film and her last, died as well, of leukemia. Like Raft, West is memorialized by a Motion Pictures star on the Hollywood Walk of Fame. But like only a handful of other stars her trademark gestures and phrases (such as "Goodness had nothing to do with it, dearie", "When I'm bad I'm even better", and "Come up and see me sometime") have entered into the pop culture lexicon. Courtesy of: http://www.nndb.com/people/828/000031735/

Quote of the Day

2009-03-30T09:31:00.002-04:00

A kiss is a lovely trick designed by nature to stop speech when words become superfluous

Ingrid Bergman

Aja Stubbs - Belle-Noir Mgazine

2009-03-29T01:45:00.001-04:00

Created with the plus size woman of Color in mind and at heart, Belle-Noir Magazine is a complete lifestyle magazine that features everything you need to live your life in a big and beautiful way. Belle-Noir Magazine was originally concepted in August 2003 after a discussion in a Yahoo! Group in which several of the female members voiced their concerns over the lack of representation of plus size women of Color in print media. It was agreed that whether it was a magazine geared towards plus size women or a magazine for Women of Color, women size 14 and over were rarely ever featured at all. Ms. Aja B. Stubbs, seeing the past and recent demise of several magazines for both plus size women and women of color, decided to take her personal goal of starting a magazine to the 21st Century by creating an online publication that would be dedicated to women just like her. With the help of several friends and a lot of determination, Ms. Stubbs launched Belle-Noir E-zine launched on November 1, 2003 on a Geocities site. After four successful years as a bi-monthly online magazine, Belle-Noir Magazine has now transitioned to a blog format in an effort to provide "bakery fresh" content to our readers on a daily basis. Belle-Noir Magazine's Objectives: • To promote the positive image of Big Beautiful Women of Color by featuring content (i.e. articles, poetry, photos, etc.) of an informative, entertaining, and inspiring nature, created specifically with the Big Beautiful Woman of Color in mind. • To support the work and deeds of other individuals who promote size acceptance, the positive portrayal of Big Beautiful Women, and the positive portrayal of women of Color Belle-Noir Magazine is pleased to present our new Signature Event! Curves & Cocktails: The Ultimate Girls Night Out for Women with Curves! Saturday, April 25, 2009 from 12 Noon to 6:00pm in New York City. For more information on tickets, or for information on being a Vendor or Sponsor of this event, please visit http://www.curvesandcocktails.com

Quote of the Day

2009-03-29T01:29:00.001-04:00

If you have only one smile in you, give it to the people you love. Don't be surly at home, then go out in the street and start grinning "Good morning" at total strangers.

Maya Angelou

Nidelka Mayers

2009-03-28T02:10:00.001-04:00

As President and CEO of A1 Technology & Travel and Founder of the Affair Group “Your Wedding Affair, Honeymoon Affair and Gifts Affair”, she oversees the marketing direction, technical development and quality control of the entire company. In addition, she is the driving force behind the long-range planning and strategic development that has made The Affair Group a unique woman wend company that specializes in events and strategic marketing. A “hands-on” Chief Executive, she is accessible, determined, with an eye to detail, single-minded in her vision of the Affair Group as the prime force in the event planning market of the 22 century. Ready to take on the next challenge and confident that her experience combine with education gives her the unique set of skills necessary to succeed in the event production and publishing industry. In 2006 Mayers’ strategically partners to create Harlem Weddings Bridal Show, producing the first Harlem Wedding guide and bridal show that features a different for theme each event. A native of the Republic of Panama, motivated and enthusiastic Mayers; the woman whose background consist of 15 years of management, marketing, event planning and customer service experience holds a bachelor’s degree in accounting and computer science, certification in business administration and project management, travel and wedding consultant. http://www.yourweddingaffair.com/

Quote of the Day

2009-03-28T01:07:00.001-04:00

Curve: The loveliest distance between two points. Mae West

Roseanne Barr

2009-03-27T01:55:00.001-04:00

Actor, comedienne, producer, talk show host. Born Roseanne Barr on November 3, 1952, in Salt Lake City, Utah. Roseanne became one of America’s most watched sitcom stars during the late 1980s and 1990s. She married Bill Pentland in 1974 and the couple had three children. Roseanne turned her experiences as a wife and mother into a stand-up comedy act and began performing at local clubs. Audiences responded to her “domestic goddess” routine and she got bigger gigs and made friends such as comics as Sam Kenison. She started making appearances on The Tonight Show in the mid-1980s. In 1988, Roseanne became a television star with her self-titled show. Her realistic depiction of a tough, but tender, wise-cracking mom struck a cord with viewers. Roseanne received three Emmy Award nominations for Outstanding Lead Actress in a Comedy Series, before finally winning the award in 1995. In addition to the show, Roseanne has worked in several feature films. She starred in She-Devil (1989) opposite Meryl Streep and Ed Begley, Jr., and appeared in Freddy’s Dead (1991), Blue in the Face (1995), and Meet Wally Sparks (1997). She also voiced a baby girl in Look Who’s Talking Too (1990) and a cow in Home on the Range (2004). She also wrote two books about her experiences: Roseanne: My Life as a Woman (1989) and My Lives (1994). For almost a decade, viewers tuned in each week to catch the adventures of the Conners. After the show ended in 1997, Roseanne tackled a number of projects. She had her talk show from 1998 to 2000. More recently she returned to her stand-up roots with her own HBO comedy special in 2006.

Quote of the Day

2009-03-27T01:13:00.001-04:00

I married beneath me - all women do. Nancy Astor

Constance Baker Motley

2009-03-26T01:37:00.001-04:00

Lawyer and judge, born in New Haven, Connecticut, USA. While a student at Columbia University (1946 LLB), she worked as a clerk for the National Association for the Advancement of Colored People's legal defence and education fund, then took a full-time post there (1946–65). She successfully argued nine cases before the US Supreme Court, including those of James Meredith and Autherine Lucy. In 1964 she became the first African-American woman to be elected to the New York state senate, and became president of Manhattan Borough (1965–6). She became the first black woman federal judge when President Lyndon Johnson appointed her to the US District Court for the S District of New York (1966). In 1982–6 she served as chief judge, becoming senior judge in 1986. Motley died in a Manhattan hospital on September 28, 2005 at age 84. Courtesy of: http://www.biography.com/search/article.do?id=9416520

Quote of the Day

2009-03-26T01:14:00.001-04:00

Women are meant to be loved, not to be understood. Oscar Wilde

Robin Roberts

2009-03-25T01:10:00.001-04:00

Robin Roberts was named third anchor of ABC News' "Good Morning America" in May 2005 At "Good Morning America," Roberts reports on a wide array of topics and issues for the morning broadcast. She has covered numerous special events ranging from the homecoming of soldiers aboard the USS Roosevelt to the Golden Jubilee at Buckingham Palace to the 25th anniversary of the papacy of Pope John Paul II in Vatican City. Roberts has also interviewed newsmakers from first lady Laura Bush to sports legends Tiger Woods and Shaquille O'Neal. Most recently, Roberts reported from Des Moines, Iowa, where she anchored a Town Hall meeting with presidential candidate Sen. Hillary Rodham Clinton (D-N.Y.). She has also traveled to Africa with former President Clinton to bring viewers a firsthand look at the devastating AIDS crisis in that part of the world. There, she and the president visited cities and villages around the continent to bring the story to "GMA" viewers. Roberts is also the only morning anchor to have ever broadcast live from inside a Navy submarine. In August 2005, Roberts found her personal and professional lives collide when Hurricane Katrina devastated the city of New Orleans and the entire Mississippi Gulf Coast -- a part of the country she has called home for most of her life. Roberts reported live amid the devastation in the days following the storm and launched "GMA" Gets It Done," a year-long initiative to get her hometown of Pass Christian, Miss., up and running. She has returned to the Gulf Coast numerous times to continue her reporting and update viewers on how residents, businesses and everyone in that part of the country is mending post-Katrina. In March 2003, Roberts traveled to the Persian Gulf Region to report from Kuwait on the impending war with Iraq. In March 2004, Roberts returned to the war zone, reporting on the one year anniversary of the war. Roberts has also reported on the practicality of sky marshals on airplanes; the impact of the World Trade Center attacks on the town of Rockville Center, N.Y.; the custody battle over 12-year-old Timmie Meldrum; and the controversial gentrification of Harlem. Roberts has contributed to "Good Morning America" since June 1995, and has worked in broadcasting for more than 20 years. Other ABC assignments have included segments hosting "Good Morning America Sunday" and "Prime Time." From 1990 to 2005, Roberts was also a contributor to ESPN, where she was one of the network's most versatile commentators. Her assignments there included hosting "SportsCenter," contributing to "NFL PrimeTime" from 1990-1994, and providing reports and interviews from the field.

Quote of the Day

2009-03-25T01:07:00.001-04:00

If you have any doubts that we live in a society controlled by men, try reading down the index of contributors to a volume of quotations, looking for women's names. - Elaine Gill

Robbyne Kaamil

2009-03-24T01:31:00.001-04:00

I was born and bred in the Bronx thus proving to the world that civilized people are able to coexist with crack heads, criminals and crooked cops. After changing my major 3 times in college I decided to get my degree in history. If the truth be told I would have preferred to have my ass up on a stage. I’ve always had a flair for the dramatic. (I must have been a drag queen in a past life. I came back with real titties this time. Thank you Jesus!) Despite my artistic yearnings I went into teaching after college. I taught GED preparation to high school drop outs and women on AFDC (for all you uppity bitches that’s Aid to Families with Dependent Children aka Welfare). Teaching left me unfulfilled and stressed. But after college I was unemployed and a bitch has got to eat. Several years ago after a long day at work and a bag of weed I had a vision. (It was some good shit!) I started to give in to my creative urges. I started writing poetry and short stories. I first shared my work with the world when I collaborated with a visual artist by composing poems to accompany his work. My shit was so “in-your-face” that the gallery yanked it. This experience inspired me to produce a body of work including my book “Get Off The Titty: Poetry That Bites” and my one woman show, "Robbyne Kaamil: Raw & Real…Life From One Woman's Perspective" (Now available on DVD) My in-your-face style landed me appearances on numerous television and radio shows including The Howard Stern Show and Queer Eye for the Straight Guy. I’ve also added comedian, talk show host, voice-over artist, full-figured model and motivational speaker to my resume. Several years ago a friend was putting together a e-zine and I suggested that she needed an advice column for real people with real issues. I was so tired of the passive shit I’d read in other advice columns. Sometimes it’s best to dump a motherfucker and not try to work it out. Who needs the drama?! This is a new day. It’s time to free your mind and your soul. It’s time to get real and stop the madness. My philosophy is If you’re not real with yourself you can’t expect the world to be real with you. I created the site to help you get to the truth. The truth is the light! Can I get an Amen?! http://www.canwebereal.com

Quote of the Day

2009-03-24T00:15:00.001-04:00

Woman is a miracle of divine contradictions. Jules Michelet

66th United States Secretary of State Condoleezza Rice

2009-03-23T08:54:00.000-04:00

Condoleezza Rice (born November 14, 1954) was the 66th United States Secretary of State, and the second in the administration of President George W. Bush to hold the office. Rice was the first black woman, second African American (after her predecessor Colin Powell, who served from 2001 to 2005), and the second woman (after Madeleine Albright, who served from 1997 to 2001 in the Clinton Administration) to serve as Secretary of State. Rice was President Bush's National Security Advisor during his first term. Before joining the Bush administration, she was a professor of political science at Stanford University where she served as Provost from 1993 to 1999. During the administration of George H.W. Bush, Rice served as the Soviet and East European Affairs Advisor during the dissolution of the Soviet Union and German reunification. When beginning as Secretary of State, Rice pioneered a policy of Transformational Diplomacy, with a focus on democracy in the greater Middle East. Her emphasis on supporting democratically elected governments faced challenges as Hamas captured a popular majority in Palestinian elections yet supported Islamist militants, and influential countries including Saudi Arabia and Egypt maintained authoritarian systems with US support. While Secretary of State, she chaired the Millennium Challenge Corporation's board of directors.[1] Rice was approached in February 2009 to fill an open position as a Pac-10 Commissioner but declined.[2] Courtesy of: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Condoleezza_Rice

Quote of the Day

2009-03-23T01:56:00.001-04:00

Never underestimate the power of dreams and the influence of the human spirit. We are all the same in this notion. The potential for greatness lives within each of us.
Wilma Rudolph

Wilma Rudolph

2009-03-22T01:00:00.001-04:00

Athlete, Olympic track and field champion. Born on June 23, 1940, in St. Bethlehem, Tennessee. Rudolph became the first American woman to win three gold medals in track and field events at the Olympics. But the road to victory was not an easy one for her. Born premature and sickly as a child, Rudolph had problems with her left leg and had to wear a brace. It was with great determination and with the help of physical therapy that she was able to overcome her physical disabilities. Growing up in the South during days of segregation, Rudolph attended an African-American high school where she played on the basketball team. A naturally gifted runner, she later recruited for the track team. While still in high school, Rudolph qualified for the 1956 Olympic Games in Melbourne, Australia. At the age of 16, she was the youngest member of the U.S. team and won a bronze medal in the sprint relay event. After finishing high school, Rudolph enrolled at Tennessee State University where she studied education. She also trained hard for the next Olympics. Held in Rome, Italy, the 1960 Olympics were a golden time for Rudolph. She won the 100 meter, 200 meter, and sprint relay events, making her one of the popular athletes from the games. This first-class sprinter became a sports superstar, celebrated around the world for her achievements. She made numerous appearances on television and received several honors, including being named the Associated Press Woman Athlete of the Year twice. After retiring from competition in the early 1960s, Rudolph worked as a teacher and a track coach. She shared her remarkable story with the world in 1977 with her autobiography, Wilma. Her book was later turned into a television film. In the 1980s, she was inducted into the U.S. Olympic Hall of Fame and established the Wilma Rudolph Foundation to promote amateur athletics. Rudolph died on November 12, 1994, near Nashville, Tennessee, from brain cancer. In 2004, the United States Postal Service honored this Olympic champion by featuring her likeness on a 23-cent stamp. She is remembered as one of the fastest women in track and as a source of great inspiration for generations of African-American athletes. © 2007 A&E Television Networks. All rights reserved.

Quote of the Day

2009-03-22T00:35:00.001-04:00

Don't compromise yourself. You are all you've got
Janis Joplin

Shirley Chisholm

2009-03-21T01:18:00.001-04:00

US representative and social activist. Born Shirley St. Hill on November 30, 1924 in New York City. Chisholm spent part of her childhood in Barbados with her grandmother and graduated from Brooklyn College in 1946. She began her career as a teacher and earned a Master's degree in elementary education from Columbia University. She served as director of the Hamilton-Madison Child Care Center from 1953 to 1959 as an educational consultant to New York City's Bureau of Child Welfare from 1959 to 1964. In 1969, Chisholm became the first black congresswoman and began the first of seven terms. After initially being assigned to the House Forestry Committee, she shocked many by demanding reassignment. She was placed on the Veterans' Affairs Committee, eventually graduating to the Education and Labor Committee. She became one of the founding members of the Congressional Black Caucus in 1969. Chisholm became the first African American woman to make a bid to be President of the United States when she ran for the Democratic nomination in 1972. A champion of minority education and employment opportunities throughout her tenure in Congress, Chisholm was also a vocal opponent of the draft. After leaving Congress in 1983, she taught at Mount Holyoke College and was popular on the lecture circuit. Chisholm was married to Conrad Chisholm from 1949 to 1977. She wed Arthur Hardwick, Jr. in 1986. She is the author of two books, Unbought and Unbossed (1970) and The Good Fight (1973). Courtesy of:

Quote of the Day

2009-03-21T00:34:00.001-04:00

You can do one of two things; just shut up, which is something I don't find easy, or learn an awful lot very fast, which is what I tried to do
Jane Fonda

Victoria Woodhull

2009-03-20T08:56:00.001-04:00

According to her contemporaries, Victoria Woodhull was a woman 100 years ahead of her time. Although few have heard of her today, when she ran for President of the United States in 1872, she was one of the most famous women in the country. She advocated many things which we take for granted today: the 8-hour work day, graduated income tax, social welfare programs, and profit sharing, for example. Victoria California Claflin was born September 23, 1838 in Homer, Ohio, to a down-on-its-luck family. She was only 15 years old when she was married for the first time to Canning Woodhull. When she died on June 9, 1927, she had come a long way from her modest surroundings in Homer. She died in a Manor House in Bredon's Norton, Worcestershire, England, as the wealthy widow of a British banker. She was no "respecter of persons." She offered her hospitality to prostitutes and royalty alike. She was a bundle of contradictions. Although she was opposed to the organized Christian religion, she lived its principles: She fed the hungry, cared for the sick, and visited the prisoners. She believed that living those principles was more important to saving souls than preaching the resurrection of Christ. She owned a newspaper which was the first to print the Communist Manifesto in English; and yet, she was also the first female stockbroker on Wall Street. Her life was unique, to say the least. Victoria was nominated for the U.S. Presidency by the Equal Rights Party. Her candidacy attracted an unusual coalition of people, which included laborers, female suffragists, Spiritualists, and communists, among others. The members of the coalition represented diverse--and often conflicting--opinions. The one thing that they all agreed upon was that the government needed reform. They wanted a government "of the people, by the people, and for the people." They wanted a government with principles. Not only did the Equal Rights Party nominate the first female presidential candidate, they were also the first to nominate a black man, Frederick Douglass, for Vice President. Although few seriously thought Victoria Woodhull would win, they knew her campaign would send a message to Washington. It's time for a woman in the White House. Victoria faced many obstacles to election besides the obvious one of running when most women couldn't even vote. One obstacle was campaign fund-raising and organization. She formed "Victoria Leagues." She held "Congresses" of her followers in her own home. She attempted to raise money by selling bonds that would be redeemable during her administration. Still, she couldn't get the support she needed to launch a formidable campaign. When she began her run, she had personal funds to draw from like Steve Forbes. She was the publisher of a New York journal, "Woodhull & Claflin's Weekly." She owned a stock brokerage, "Woodhull, Claflin & Company." Eventually, though, her funds ran out. She remarked of her own campaign, "The press suddenly divided between the other two great parties, refused all notice of the new reformatory movement; a series of pecuniary disasters stripped us, for the time being, of the means of continuing our weekly publication, and forced us into a desperate struggle for mere existence. . . . The inauguration of the new party, and my nomination, seemed to fall dead upon the country; and . . . a new batch of slanders and injurious innuendoes permeated the community in respect to my condition and character." Instead of debating Victoria on the issues, her opponents attacked her personally. They called her everything from a witch to a prostitute. They accused her of having affairs with married men. At first, Victoria responded to the slanders by taking the high road and ignoring the abuse. She believed that the private matters of public figures were just that, "private." Still, the rumors didn't subside, and she found she had to justify her private behavior in public. The rumors eventually led Victoria and her family to be evicted from their home. They literally spent one night homeless on the streets of New York because landlords were afraid to rent to the "Wicked Woodhull." Victoria believed certain members of the Beecher family--Catherine Beecher and Harriet Beecher Stowe--were responsible for the insidious rumors. In desperation, Victoria and her second husband Col. Blood wrote to Rev. Henry Ward Beecher. They asked him to help put an end to the persecution. Rev. Beecher turned a cold shoulder to them. Because Henry Ward Beecher refused to listen to her pleas, Victoria felt there was no choice but to fight back and reveal the hypocrisy of her attackers. She published the story of Rev. Beecher's affair with a married woman, hoping that his family would stop the personal attacks. Instead, they enlisted the help of the United States marshals and the YMCA. The first female presidential candidate spent election day in jail. The U.S. government arrested her under the Comstock Act for sending "obscene" literature through the mail. (As late as 1996, this act was still in effect as a part of the internet Communications Decency Act.) The alleged obscenity wasn't pornography. The obscenity was an article about Rev. Beecher's affair with Lib Tilton, the wife of Beecher's best friend, Theodore Tilton. At first, people took the side of the government. They were glad to see the "Wicked Woodhull" in jail for smearing one of their favorite celebrities. As time went by, though, they realized that the principle of free speech was at stake. Victoria, her sister Tennie C., and her husband Col. Blood were in jail for publishing what they believed to be the truth. The government didn't care if it was the truth. They wanted to destroy Victoria Woodhull and her newspaper, "Woodhull & Claflin's Weekly." Some members of the press joined in. A Chicago editor admitted to an intentional campaign to destroy her. He said, "Editors know that all she has said about Beecher is true, and we must either indorse her and make her the most popular woman in the world, or write her down and crush her out; and we have determined to do the latter." The scandal erupted into numerous trials for obscenity and libel. Victoria was on the defensive and was arrested eight times. Henry Ward Beecher and Theodore Tilton denied everything. They said that woman was lying. In 1875, Theodore Tilton had a change of heart. He took Reverend Beecher to court for alienation of his wife's affection. To some, it seemed a vindication of Woodhull. To others, it proved Theodore Tilton was part of a vast conspiracy to bring down Rev. Beecher. The Beecher-Tilton trial was the biggest news since President Lincoln had been assassinated. It received more coverage than the impeachment of President Johnson. It was as widely covered as the O.J. Simpson trial. It created thousands of pages of testimony and numerous books like the Clinton-Lewinsky scandal. The country was sharply divided. Some believed Beecher was guilty. Others believed Woodhull made the whole thing up. They thought she published the article because she wanted fame or increased circulation. Victoria, Tennie C., and Colonel were eventually acquitted of any crimes, but the lawsuits ruined them. They spent a fortune in legal bills and bail. They lost their stock brokerage. The government confiscated their printing press, their personal papers, and their brokerage accounts, which were a major source of their income. They had received death threats and blackmail letters. They estimated their losses at half a million dollars and told the government they would be satisfied if they received $50,000 in restitution. They never received anything. With its malicious prosecution, the federal government bankrupted its first female presidential candidate--financially and emotionally. It's been nearly 128 years, and still no woman has made it to the White House. No person of color has even made it to the Vice Presidency. Money is still a major obstacle for candidates. The private lives of public figures are still an issue. The people still feel the politicians aren't representing them. It seems little has changed in politics in the past century. Courtesy of:

Quote of the Day

2009-03-20T00:30:00.001-04:00

Invest in the human soul. Who knows, it might be a diamond in the rough.
Mary McLeod Bethune

Erica Watson

2009-03-19T01:28:00.001-04:00

Originally from Chicago, Erica Watson is a stand-up comedienne and film/television director living in NYC. In 2009, Erica Watson will appear in the Lee Daniel's film "PUSH" opposite Mo'nique, Lenny Kravitz, Sherri Sheppard and Paula Patton. Earlier this year, Watson starred in the 20th Century Fox theatrical release "Dirty Laundry" and she is currently featured in two commercials for the Oxygen Network called "Tresstify" and "Kiss & Tell". Most recently, Watson was a featured commentator/pundit on 3 different BET Specials: "The Evolution of Mary J. Blige", "I Wanna Thank My Momma", and "The Evolution of Jay-Z". Because of her views on politics and pop culture, Watson is a recurring panelist on the BETJ talk show "My Two Cents." Watson is also the DIRECTOR of the reality TV Series "My Model Looks Better Than Your Model" on the BETJ Network. When she is not performing at various comedy clubs across the country, you can catch her on the Oxygen Network, MSG-TV and BET. http://www.ericawatson.com

Quote of the Day

2009-03-19T00:36:00.001-04:00

Something which we think is impossible now is not impossible in another decade
Constance Baker Motley

Renee “Soooo Brooklyn” Jennings

2009-03-18T06:39:00.001-04:00

What if people were to replace the written meaning of words in dictionaries across the continents with a picture of a person who exemplifies the definition? Words like eclectic, intricate, spunky, fearless, resourceful, and steadfast would certainly be among the adjectives in which this often categorized “superwoman” would be defined. A woman who predicted her own fate at the tender age of twelve; announcing she would indeed live in New York City one day and be in the entertainment business. This luminous female could not hide her shine even in the midst of the most catastrophic tragedy. After all, she is and always has been cut from the echelons of that old school “big momma” kind of strength. She is a writer, model, trendsetter, mentor, entrepreneur, advocate, radio show host, and quite frankly one of the biggest diversified personalities to ever reign in the complicated walls of society. She is Renee “Soooo Brooklyn” Jennings. Born in 1980 Renee seemed destined to surpass any obstacles put in front of her. Being an only child until the age of fifteen, Renee spent a lot of her time immersed in her grandmother and aunt’s record collection. Listening to Roberta Flack and Stevie Wonder, she would close her eyes and feel each word that was sung and listen to each chord played until she became one with the melody. That passion for music, lead her to explore what she could do if she started to write her own songs. By age ten, she could rap Queen Latifah and Monie Loves, “Ladies First,” like she wrote it herself and in turn, could write lyrics like a polished emcee. She began writing everything from short stories to poetry. Often entering writing contests that landed her winning entries such as the one she entered regarding the values her grandmother taught her that landed her lunch with Hillary Rodham Clinton. Her journalism career began to blossom in high school; interviewing Queen Latifah, r&b group, Silk and activist like Dick Gregory, for her school newspaper. In 1999, she left Washington, DC and moved to New York City. Her 10 year span in the city that never sleeps has afforded her many opportunities. After attending Medgar Evers College in Brooklyn, New York, her desires to immediately place herself in the entertainment industry, lead her to leave college and go out on her own. The results of this often criticized decision were astounding. Renee has been the music editor for Full Bloom Inc. She also had the opportunity to be one of the associate producers and co-host of the hit talk show on Fusebox Radio called "Her Voice." She has been a freelance audio and print journalist for HHNLive.com, Femmixx.com, and Heavy Rotation Magazine. She has interviewed countless celebrities such as, Too $hort, Jagged Edge, Russell Simmons, Sway, Beenie Man, Krucial Keys and Roy Jones, Jr., and Buffie the Body. Renee is the on-air host and producer of her own Internet talk radio show, "Sarcasm with No Chaser." The show was started in July 2007 as an avenue for people to speak their minds freely and listen to more than just the average rotation of music that plays on local radio stations. Renee has also been featured as an independent woman of the month on Belle-Noir.com. In February 2008, she was selected as one of the models for the 2008 Spring/Summer collection photo shoot for Blur Custom Dezign that took place in Buffalo, NY. She also formed her own company; R. Media Group. The company specializes in all aspects of entertainment writing and event public relations. In October 2008, Renee co-starred in the Sharon McGhee's The Pocketbook Monologues; where she performed at the Sage Theater in Times Square, New York. Currently, her projects include public relations via R. Media Group for Blissful Elegance Events Meeting in the Ladies Room: “Flashing Lights & Lip-Gloss” event and the kick-off of Belle-Noir’s Curves and Cocktails event. Renee resides in Brooklyn, New York with her first love; Hip-Hop. Contact info: Email: hhbkrenee@gmail.com www.myspace.com/reneejennings

Quote of the Day

2009-03-18T00:25:00.001-04:00

When I'm good, I'm very good. When I'm bad, I'm better.
Mae West

Trudie Tapper-Coverdale - TruButter

2009-03-17T01:50:00.001-04:00

I have always dreamed of leaving corporate America to work for myself, running my own business. I feel that if I am going to work 70 hours per week, I want that time to be spent realizing my own venture as opposed to realizing someone else’s. Bringing my dream to life has been challenging, but I love every minute of it. TruButter was born from the need to find effective deep moisturizing skin care products. With a background in environmental science, I began making products for my husband who wanted a moisturizer that lasted longer than 4 hours. After some thought and research I decided on ingredients and our first body butter was born. The first products were only given to close friends and family, but quickly spread to friends of friends. Soon after the line was picked up by stores. When the products sold out the same day we dropped them off, we knew were onto something good. I found I have so much passion and drive for creating natural products that I started taking courses and attending conferences about how to use natural resources such as fruit butters, nut and flower oils and researched essential oils and skin types. That passion for quality products has led me to my advance my knowledge of nature’s resources and purse a master’s degree in Cosmetic Science. Where I will gain a greater breadth of knowledge that will allow me to create more complex products using the best ingredients. TruButter is my passion, and I want people to benefit from the world’s best natural ingredients. It has been almost six years since TruButter was born and we have grand plans for the future. Now, we’re making products and meeting new people every day. We love what we do. Creating products that reduce stress and revive skin while respecting the benefits and balance of nature, all to enhance a person’s daily wellness routine. www.trubutter.com

Quote of the Day

2009-03-17T01:13:00.001-04:00

I want history to remember me not just as the first black woman to be elected to Congress, not as the first black woman to have made a bid for the presidency of the United States, but as a black woman who lived in the 20th century and dared to be herself.
I've always met more discrimination being a woman than being black
Shirley Chisholm

Isabel Garcia

2009-03-16T11:06:00.000-04:00

Ms. Garcia is a native New Yorker, born and raised in Brooklyn. Her professional experience includes working in a non-profit serving youth and low-income families and special education. She is currently working toward a degree in Special Education. Isabel holds the titles of Ms. New York Plus America & Ms. New York American Beauties Plus, she has chosen domestic violence as her platform because of her personal and compelling story of survival and the prevalence of the problem worldwide. When she was 23 years old her boyfriend shot her in the face with a .38 magnum handgun and left her to die. Prior to this incident he repeatedly abused her. Fortunately, as she recovered from her physical injuries, she also gained the emotional strength to tell her story. As part of a universal ministry she has traveled around the world telling her story of survival to hundreds of women in El Salvador, Guatemala, Mexico, Cuba and Israel. Her motto, "Be proud of who you are!" is something she communicates to audiences of women: "No matter if you are a size 2 or 20+ we are all beautiful and you need to love yourself first then everything else will fall into place." Her message to battered women is "Stay strong and don't dismiss your dreams. To be without dreams is to be without hope. To be without hope is to be without purpose." Isabel is also an enthusiastic supporter, promoter and spokeswoman, of the One in Three© campaign where she is helping to spread the word about the important work the organization is doing globally to raise awareness of violence against women and the trauma women suffer when domestic violence is part of their lives. She is also an international spokes person for the Voices Love Music tour for victims of Abuse. 1Voice2gether.Helping Others Find their "Beautiful Wonder" within To Break the Silence! Isabel Garcia is also an Aspiring Plus Model her ambition is to change the world's perception of the plus size individuals in modeling, media, and by making a difference in the community by encouraging positive body image, character, competence, and charisma for the plus size individual.

Quote of the Day

2009-03-16T06:15:00.000-04:00

The thing women have yet to learn is nobody gives you power. You just take it. Roseanne Barr

Ann Richards

2009-03-15T09:49:00.000-04:00

U.S. politician, former governor of Texas. Born Dorothy Ann Willis on September 1, 1933, in Lakeview, Texas. Known for her sharp wit, strong personality, and liberal political views, Richards fought for women’s and minority rights and worked to bring more women and minorities into power. She showed political promise in high school, excelling in debates. Her strong debating skills earned her a college scholarship, graduating from Baylor University in 1950. She went on to get a teaching certificate at the University of Texas in Austin in 1955. Richards entered politics in the 1950 as a volunteer for several Democratic gubernatorial campaigns. She later ran the successful campaign to elect Sarah Weddington—the lawyer who argued the winning side of Roe v. Wade in front of the U.S. Supreme Court—to the Texas legislature in 1972. Four years later Richards made her first bid for public office. She won a commissioner position for Travis County. She then moved from local to state government in 1982 when she won the election to become the state treasurer. She was re-elected to that post in 1986. Richards’ political profile kept rising. She was in the national spotlight for the keynote address at the 1988 National Democratic Convention. During her speech, she took a jab at George Bush, then vice president, saying “Poor George, he can’t help it. He was born with a silver foot in his mouth.” The remark was widely repeated in the press coverage of the event. In 1990, Richards ran for governor, pledging to increase the role of minorities and women in state government as plan of her plan for a “new Texas.” Once elected, she made good on her promise by adding African Americans and women to the Texas Rangers, a law enforcement agency. She also created the state lottery and improved the prison system. While serving as governor, Richards was appointed chairwoman of the Democratic National Convention in 1992. The convention selected Bill Clinton to run for president of the United States. Richards soon had her own election battle to worry about. George W. Bush, the son of the man she so famously insulted, ran against her in 1994 for the governorship. Richards said once that she had underestimated her opponent, dismissing him at one point as “some jerk.” She lost her re-election bid and left office in 1995. After leaving office, Richards lent her voice and her expertise to numerous liberal causes. She offered advice and counsel to other Democratic politicians. Richards also worked as an adviser and a consultant. Recently she had involved with the creation of the Ann Richards School for Young Women Leaders in Austin. Employing techniques especially tailored for female students with an emphasis on leadership skills, the school will open in 2007. Battling esophageal cancer for six months, Ann Richards died from complications of the disease on September 13, 2006, in Austin, Texas. She is survived by her four children from her marriage to David Richards and eight grandchildren. Shortly after her death, former president Bill Clinton escorted her casket to the Capitol where thousands came to pay their last respects to one of the greatest politicians in Texas history. Others, such as actress Lily Tomlin and newspaper columnist Liz Smith, spoke at her funeral and at her public memorial service. Courtesy of: http://www.biography.com/search/article.do?id=9457298

Quote of the Day

2009-03-15T06:04:00.000-04:00

I have reached a point in my life where I understand the pain and the challenges; and my attitude is one of standing up with open arms to meet them all.

Myrlie Evers

Dr. Mae Jemison

2009-03-14T12:25:00.000-04:00

Mae Jemison was born in Decatur, Alabama on October 17, 1956. She was the youngest of three children. The Jemison family moved to Chicago when Mae was only three. It was in Chicago that an uncle introduced her to the world of science. At a very early age, Mae developed interests in anthropology, archaeology, and astronomy that she pursued throughout her childhood. Mae Jemison enrolled at Stanford University at the age of 16 and in 1977 graduated with degrees in both chemical engineering and Afro-American studies. She received a Doctor of Medicine degree from Cornell University in 1981. Dr. Jemison has practiced medicine as a volunteer in a Cambodian refugee camp and as a medical officer with the Peace Corps in West Africa. She was working as a general practitioner in Los Angeles, California when NASA selected her and 14 others for astronaut training. Dr. Jemison completed her training as a mission specialist with NASA in 1988. In September of 1992, as a mission specialist aboard the Shuttle Endeavour, Mae Jemison became the first African-American woman to enter space. In 1993, Dr. Jemison resigned from NASA and founded the Jemison Group, Inc. Among her current projects are several that focus on improving healthcare in Africa and advancing technology in developing countries. Courtesy of:http://starchild.gsfc.nasa.gov/docs/StarChild/whos_who_level2/jemison.html

Quote of the Day

2009-03-14T11:46:00.000-04:00

Women elected Bill Clinton this time. He acknowledges it, the country acknowledges it, and the columnists acknowledge it, and when you have that kind of political clout, you can effect change and do it well. And I'm real proud to have been a part of that.

Ann Richards

Lynx Garcia (Supersize Spanishfly)

2009-03-13T06:29:00.000-04:00

Lynx Garcia, also known as "Supersize Spanishfly", is a single mother of one, and a Latina bbw from corona, queens, New York. An activist, speaking out against size discrimination, Lynx began performing back in 1996 at social events for BBW's and BHM.s (big beautiful women and big handsome males) and began to build a solid reputation for her performances. Her singing, rapping and spoken word performances at various events in the tri state area, soon put her in demand at Big and Beautiful parties nationwide. After several years of performing and showcasing her talents, Lynx decided to take her look and sound main-stream, only to have the doors slammed shut in her face, because of her size. But she did not let this break her spirit, hurt her confidence or minimize her drive. Instead she put all of her energy into starting a public-access TV series that would not only promote her talents, but others as well. Thus she created Lynx's Lair, airing in Queens on Time Warner's QPTV, channel 56 on Tuesday nights. Lynx's Lair became a showcase for upcoming, as well as prominently known artists from all walks of life. From the pioneer B-boys and girls of Hip-Hop like, Kool Herc, Grand Master Caz, DJ Disco Wiz, and The Beat-nuts, to spoken word artists such as Joell Ortiz, Alvare (winner of the UMA Best Latin Hip-Hop Artist Award), Sano-In (of the Latin Hip-Hop connect), La Bruja, Ice T and his wife Coco,Notch, Noriega. Lynx has had them all in her Lair and has created a series that gives a voice and a platform to the artists and performers who can't get the mainstream exposure afforded to artists signed to the major corporations. The response to her show was phenomenal. In less than a year she had showcased so many artists (some who have moved on to bigger and better things) that she herself became a popular figure on the New York City entertainment scene. In fact, Lynx can't walk down the street without people running up to her to give her compliments on the program, as well as their CD's and demos. She receives hundreds of e-mails monthly from artists and fans alike as her two myspace pages are in heavy demand and her BBW community supports her every move. In 2005 Lynx caught the attention of Joey Mekkah of Black Solaris Entertainment and soon found herself on Grand Master Mele Mel's new solo album "Muscles; featured on the hot Latin hip-hop track; 'Dimelo". She is the only collaboration on the album with the legend, and describes the experience by stating; "even though Mel comes across extremely hard on stage, in reality he is the most humble person that I've ever met. To me, it's was an honor just to work with a living legend, but then to be able to actually call him a friend as well is a blessing on yet another level." In January of 2008 Lynx received the surprise of a lifetime when the Rock and Roll Hall Of Fame Inductee Melle Mel came out to present Lynx with Curvesity's "You make a Difference" award. Lynx is well known and loved in the Hip Hop community. She has been embraced by artists such as Grandmaster Caz, Ice T and his wife Coco and most every single pioneer in the Hip Hop community as well as underground social conscience Mc's like Nyoil and Supa Nova Slom and has joined the Unify The Hood, Heal the Hood crusade. Fans of Lynx Garcia can hear (and download) her weekly show on "Extravagangsta radio" on Friday nights. "Extravagangsta" is #1 on the itunes network and averages roughly, about 45 to 50,000 downloads weekly with 250,000 listeners worldwide. Lynx and the crew of E.G. Radio were featured in the December issue of the Source magazine in an article about the grass roots media coverage of The Jena Six. They can also follow her exploits by checking out her blogs at [Si] TV.com. The [Si] TV website is an extension of the television network that provides entertainment based content geared toward the Hispanic and young adult markets. The website features interviews, reviews, blogs and photos as well as an on line community platform, similar to that of myspace and facebook. Lynx's blog topics vary from political and social issues to light and insightful observations based on everyday life. Lynx was also featured in a profile on Telemundo' TV/channel 47's morning show in a very dramatic and moving piece revolving around her weight issues and trying to excel in the entertainment business. The piece was so well received that Telemundo' is planning to do a follow up in the coming months because of the viewer response. Lynx Garcia and her management are currently in the development stages of a reality show pilot based around her exploits. She is an avid activist, supporting movements revolving around The Jena Six, Justice For Sean Bell,the genocide in Darfur and animal rights. Lynx hosts rallies for protesting against police brutality and Immigrants Rights. Lynx is currently writing for Blacktino.net a website dedicated to "Building Ethnic Unity" and has been recognized for her Hood Healer Series Lynx has been acknowledged for her efforts in raising awareness on the tensions that exist between the black and brown gangs of California as well as her coverage of the historical Peace Treaty by various gangs in Greensboro North Carolina and is often called upon by other media outlets for updates such as blackelectorate.com and Redding News Review and WRFG Fm radio.."Lynx Garcia has been our best resource in trying to cover the efforts of the gangs to reach a peaceful solution. That's what the community is not hearing about in the press. The gang members have to be a part of the reconciliation process in order for black and brown unity to sustain itself." Bruno GastonWRFG-FM AtlantaCo-ProducerThe Tambor"In Lynx Garcia I have found a unique blend of intellect, passion and personality. Her insight into the shared cultural, historical, and political experience and realities of 'Black' and 'Latino' peoples is invaluable. She embodies the next level of activism that marries the use of cutting edge technology with a presence on the ground, and in the streets. Lynx Garcia is a reservoir of guidance for this generation, and beyond..."Cedric MuhammadCEO/PublisherBlackElectorate.com and The Black Coffee Channel Lynx Garcia, aka Supersize Spanishfly is a living testament of beating the odds and realizing her dreams despite society's view of the overweight. Along with her beauty, talent and confidence, Lynx credits her dedication and perseverance to the support of her friends and family and her faith in God. She is currently working on expanding her Lynx's Lair cable show, and placing it as a podcast in conjunction with E.G. Radio. She also writes a new music report for "Large in Charge" magazine, and is the subject of a cover story in the premiere issue of the new online periodical; Pearadigm magazine, which features an insightful interview and a great photo spread.http://www.egradioonline.com/

Quote of the Day

2009-03-13T06:14:00.000-04:00

Never limit yourself because of others' limited imagination; never limit others because of your own limited imagination. Mae Jemison, astronaut

Ivette Attaud-Jones

2009-03-12T10:59:00.000-04:00

A social entrepreneur, former Fort Bragg Army wife and a 20 year survivor of domestic violence. After the loss of her infant twin daughter to domestic violence and beginning her journey to healing, she has made it her mission to speak out against domestic violence by raising awareness within the faith based community. She is also the author of Silent No More, A Woman’s Story of Surviving Domestic Abuse in the Military, soon to be published. She has also served on the Battered Women’s Justice Committee of Voices of Women Organizing Project and received a Certificate of Completion in Victim Assistance Training from the Office For Victims of Crime. Intended as an empowering support group for women to address long-term issues and the unspoken journey of healing that survivors of domestic violence face after leaving their abuser, My Life My Soul also works with the faith based community by providing them with information and strategies to help address domestic violence within their own congregations, including tools and educational activities designed to: Understand and recognize the warning signs of domestic violence and abuse, including spiritual abuse, Support members of their congregations who are seriously impacted by domestic violence, Hold abusers accountable, Create a zero tolerance environment, and Locate and work with supportive resources in the community. About My Life My Soul My Life My My Soul is a domestic violence program of the East Harlem Churches and Community Urban Center in New York. My Life My Soul focuses on raising awareness through community education projects including workshop facilitation and public speaking. The goal of My Life My Soul is to empower women through open discussions on how domestic abuse affects their lives as survivors; to explore issues not openly talked about that a woman faces after leaving her abuser; to eliminate isolation; to exchange valuable information and provide emotional support; to explore individual self-image and reinforce self-confidence. My Life My Soul is also an interactive, live internet talk-radio show that focuses on domestic violence and its impact on survivors. Callers are encouraged to call (646) 716-5556 to listen or share their experience. The show will be hosted live every Saturday morning at 9 a.m. Eastern on www.BlogTalkRadio.com/mylifemysoul.

Quote of the Day

2009-03-12T04:16:00.000-04:00

There are no good girls gone wrong - just bad girls found out. Mae West

Tiffany Braxton

2009-03-11T06:37:00.000-04:00

Tiffany Braxton, a native New Yorker, is driven by the motto Opportunity knocks once, but temptation will lean on the doorbell. The allure of pageantry and runway has been with her since she was a child, but it wasn't until the early 90's that Tiffany began performing in amateur fashion shows where on many occasions she was the only full-figured model.In 2007 When cast for a reality show that did not meet production she was urged to consider modeling professionally. Motivated to change the perception of the plus sized femme and armed with the support of family, friends, and people she considers mentors in the industry Tiffany began her professional career as one of the first signature models for the e-zine Belle-Noir.com. She became a fit model for a denim company, and has placed as a finalist in multiple model search competitions. Tiffany has appeared in various media outlets including The Tyra Banks Show, ABC Eyewitness News, NBC Today in New York, and she appeared in the second season of Lifetime Television's How To Look Good Naked. Tiffany was crowned Miss NYC Plus Diva 2008 where she also received accolades for her award winning poem "Why Do I Love My Curves?" Tiffany's professionalism and work ethic have parlayed her into positions as a model consultant, pageant coach, and she is honored to be a Regional Director for the Miss Black New York USA Pageant. Tiffany is currently represented by DSE Model & Talent Management and all modeling inquiries can be submitted to by email to devoe@dseventsinc.com. http://www.tiffanybraxton.com/ www.myspace.com/plusmodeltiffanybraxton

Quote of the Day

2009-03-11T06:17:00.000-04:00

I know God will not give me anything I can't handle. I just wish that He didn't trust me so much. Mother Theresa, social activist

Cassandra Bromfield

2009-03-10T06:05:00.000-04:00

Creative and passionate are words that come to mind when describing Cassandra Bromfield. Specializing in Custom Designed Wedding Gowns and Social Occasions. These one-of-a-kind pieces are simple yet elegant. Clients are women who want style, artistic flavor, and quality. Cassandra will listen, in order to interpret, and create the clients signature style. Patches of silk delicate antique laces and buttons, intricate beadwork and hand painted designs are all a part of Cassandra’s personal touch. Her gowns have been featured in Woman’s Wear Daily, Brides magazine, Essence, The New York Times, Cranes, For You Magazine, Brides Noir, Amsterdam News, and the Daily News. She has also been featured on the Fox T.V. morning show Good Day N.Y., The Maury Povich Show and listed in Jumping the Broom and Nubian Bride. Cassandra’s potpourri of ideas presents a demure soft and subtle cultural touch in her eclectic style. She strongly believes in the concept of the ceremony and she refers to her multi-cultural art book collections for inspiration along with visiting many museums. It is her fresh approach which draws a wide variety of clients including celebrities such as Desiree Underwood (wife of Blair Underwood) and Ruby Dee, legendary actress. Cassandra Bromfield’s Studio is located in Brooklyn, NY. Clients can enjoy private consultations and fittings. She is presently writes a newsletter Let’s Get Married! and two Bridal Blogs, http://www.cassandrabromfieldbridalblog.blogspot.com/ and http://www.cassandrabromfieldblogs.blogspot.com/. The focus is on tips, ideas and resources for today’s creative cultural bride.

The Collections

Patchwork Gowns Using Vibrant silks, reminiscent of family heirloom quilts

Bridal Pieces Elegant separates of silk camisoles, halters, various skirts and bridal coats

Traditional Favorite traditional shapes with a modern flair

Culturally Inspired Fashion forward shapes and styles with cultural influences using beads, shells, lace, and embroidered fabrics

http://www.cassandrabromfield.com/

Quote of the Day

2009-03-10T04:18:00.000-04:00

In politics if you want anything said, ask a man. If you want anything done, ask a woman. Margaret Thatcher, British politician

FIRST LADY MICHELLE OBAMA

2009-03-09T08:36:00.000-04:00

When people ask Michelle Obama to describe herself, she doesn't hesitate. First and foremost, she is Malia and Sasha's mom. But before she was a mother — or a wife, lawyer, or public servant — she was Fraser and Marian Robinson's daughter. The Robinsons lived in a brick bungalow on the South Side of Chicago. Fraser was a pump operator for the Chicago Water Department, and despite being diagnosed with multiple sclerosis at a young age, he hardly ever missed a day of work. Marian stayed home to raise Michelle and her brother, Craig, skillfully managing a busy household filled with love, laughter, and important life lessons. A product of Chicago public schools, Michelle studied sociology and African-American studies at Princeton University. After graduating from Harvard Law School in 1988, she joined the Chicago law firm Sidley & Austin, where she later met the man who would become the love of her life. After a few years, Michelle decided her true calling lay in encouraging people to serve their communities and their neighbors. She served as assistant commissioner of planning and development in Chicago's City Hall before becoming the founding executive director of the Chicago chapter of Public Allies, an AmeriCorps program that prepares youth for public service. In 1996, Michelle joined the University of Chicago with a vision of bringing campus and community together. As associate dean of student services, she developed the university's first community service program, and under her leadership as vice president of community and external affairs for the University of Chicago Medical Center, volunteerism skyrocketed. As First Lady, Michelle Obama looks forward to continuing her work on the issues close to her heart — supporting military families, helping working women balance career and family, and encouraging national service. Michelle and Barack Obama have two daughters: Malia, 10, and Sasha, 7. Like their mother, the girls were born on the South Side of Chicago. Courtesy of: http://www.whitehouse.gov/administration/michelle_obama

Quote of the Day

2009-03-09T04:12:00.000-04:00

If particular care and attention is not paid to the ladies, we are determined to forment a rebellion and will not hold ourselves bound by any laws in which we have no voice or representation. Abigail Adams, U.S. First Lady, 1776

Gloria Steinem

2009-03-08T06:20:00.000-04:00

Gloria Steinem travels widely as a feminist activist, organizer, writer and lecturer. Her books include the bestsellers Revolution from Within: A Book of Self-Esteem, Outrageous Acts and Everyday Rebellions, Moving Beyond Words, and Marilyn: Norma Jean, on the life of Marilyn Monroe. She was an editor of The Reader's Companion to U.S. Women's History. Steinem co-founded New York Magazine and Ms. Magazine where she continues to serve as a consulting editor. She has been published in many magazines and newspapers here and in other countries, and is also a frequent guest commentator on radio and television. She helped to found the Women's Action Alliance, the National Women's Political Caucus, and Choice USA. She was the founding president of the Ms. Foundation for Women and helped create Take Our Daughters to Work Day. She recently co-founded the Women's Media Center and GreenStone Media. She has served on the board of trustees of Smith College, and was a member of the Beyond Racism Initiative, a comparative study of racial patterns in the U.S., South Africa, and Brazil. She has also co-produced a documentary on child abuse for HBO, and a feature film for Lifetime. Ms. Steinem has received the Penney-Missouri Journalism Award, the Front Page and Clarion awards, National Magazine awards, an Emmy Citation for excellence in television writing, the Women's Sports Journalism Award, the Lifetime Achievement in Journalism Award from the Society of Professional Journalists, the Society of Writers Award from the United Nations, and most recently, the University of Missouri School of Journalism Award for Distinguished Service in Journalism. Other recognitions include the first Doctorate of Human Justice awarded by Simmons College, the Bill of Rights Award from the American Civil Liberties Union of Southern California, the National Gay Rights Advocates Award, the Liberty award of the Lambda Legal Defense and Education Fund, the Ceres Medal from the United Nations, and a number of honorary degrees. Parenting magazine selected her for its Lifetime Achievement Award in 1995 for her work in promoting girls' self-esteem, and Biography magazine listed her as one of the 25 most influential women in America. In 1993, she was inducted into the National Women's Hall of Fame in Seneca Falls, New York. She has been the subject of Lifetime and ABC biographical television documentaries, and The Education of a Woman, a biography by Carolyn Heilbrun. She is currently at work on Road to the Heart: America As if Everyone Mattered, a book about her more than thirty years on the road as a feminist organizer; and with the Sophia Smith Collection at Smith College on a project to document the grassroots origins of the U.S. women's movement. Gloria Steinem is on the Advisory Board of Feminist.com. Groups Affiliated with Gloria Steinem: If you want to learn more about what Gloria is involved in (in addition to Feminist.com) - or find effective places for your own work and contribution - check out these links: www.equalitynow.org www.feminist.org www.ms.foundation.org www.msmagazine.com www.vday.org www.womensmediacenter.com Courtesy of:http://www.feminist.com/gloriasteinem/

Quote of the Day

2009-03-08T05:17:00.000-04:00

How important it is for us to recognize and celebrate our heroes and she-roes! Maya Angelou, African American poet

2009-03-07T08:29:00.000-05:00

Frances Coralie Perkins (born Fanny Coralie Perkins, lived April 10, 1882 – May 14, 1965) was the U.S. Secretary of Labor from 1933 to 1945, and the first woman ever appointed to the US Cabinet. As a loyal supporter of her friend Franklin D. Roosevelt, she helped pull the labor movement into the New Deal coalition. She and Interior Secretary Harold Ickes were the only original members of Roosevelt's cabinet who remained in offices for his entire Presidency. Perkins was born in Boston, Massachusetts, to Frederick W. Perkins, the owner of a stationer's business, and Susan Bean Perkins, but spent much of her childhood in Worcester.[1] She attended the Ferry Hall School in Lake Forest, Illinois before graduating from Mount Holyoke College in 1902, and from Columbia University in 1910 with a master's degree in sociology. In between, she held a variety of teaching positions and volunteered at settlement houses, including Hull House. In 1910 she come to state wide prominence as head of the New York Consumers League, in which position she lobbied with vigor for better working hours and conditions. The next year, she witnessed the tragic Triangle Shirtwaist Factory fire, a pivotal event in her life. In 1913 Frances Perkins married Paul Caldwell Wilson. She kept her maiden name, defending in court her right to do so. Prior to going to Washington, Perkins held various positions in New York State government. In 1918, Perkins accepted Governor Al Smith's offer to join the New York State Industrial Commission, becoming its first ever female member. She became chairwoman of the commission in 1926. In 1929, the new governor, Franklin D. Roosevelt, appointed Perkins the state's industrial commissioner. Having earned the cooperation and respect of various political factions, Perkins ably helped put New York in the forefront of progressive reform. She expanded factory investigations, reduced the workweek for women to 48 hours and championed minimum wage and unemployment insurance laws. In 1933, Roosevelt appointed Perkins as Secretary of the Department of Labor, a position she held for twelve years, longer than any other Secretary of Labor and making her the first woman to hold a cabinet position in the United States (thus becoming the first woman to enter the presidential line of succession). She and Harold L. Ickes were the only two secretaries to hold their posts throughout the entire FDR presidency. President Roosevelt almost always supported the goals and programs of Secretary Perkins. In an administration filled with compromise, the President's support for the agenda of Frances Perkins was unusually constant. Frances Perkins wearing a veil after the death of President RooseveltAs Secretary of Labor, Perkins played a key role writing New Deal legislation, including minimum-wage laws. However, her most important contribution came in 1934 as chairwoman of the President's Committee on Economic Security. In this post, she was involved in all aspects of the reports and hearings that ultimately resulted in the Social Security Act of 1935. In 1939, she came under fire from some members of Congress for refusing to deport the communist head of the west coast International Longshore and Warehouse Union, Harry Bridges. Bridges was ultimately vindicated by the Supreme Court. Al Smith, a machine politician from the old school, was an early social reformer with whom Frances Perkins made common cause. At Smith's funeral in 1944 two of his former Tammany Hall political cronies were overheard to speculate on why Smith had become a social crusader. One of them summed the matter up this way: "I'll tell you. Al Smith read a book. That book was a person, and her name was Frances Perkins. She told him all these things, and he believed her." Following the end of her tenure as Secretary of Labor in 1945, Perkins was asked by President Harry Truman to serve on the United States Civil Service Commission, which she did until 1952, when her husband died and she resigned from federal service. During this period, she also published a memoir of her time in FDR's administration called The Roosevelt I Knew, which offered a sympathetic view of the president. Following her government service career, Perkins remained active as a teacher and lecturer at the New York State School of Industrial and Labor Relations at Cornell University until her death in 1965, aged 83. The headquarters building of the United States Department of Labor in Washington, DC is named in her honor. Courtesy of:http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Frances_Perkins

Quote of the Day

2009-03-07T04:19:00.000-05:00

Some of us are becoming the men we wanted to marry. Gloria Steinem, feminist

T. Gabrielle Barnes

2009-03-06T06:38:00.000-05:00

The race is not given to the swift nor the strong, but to the one who endureth to the end. T. Gabrielle Barnes who is affectionately known by her friends as the “event planning diva” is fully prepared to endure until the end. This 31 year old entrepreneur understands that she is fearfully and wonderfully made and refuses to waste a second of this precious life, by not living up to her full potential. Gabrielle has always had a knack for coordinating events for friends and family. It wasn’t until she was planning one of the most memorable days of her life, that she realized event planning was more than just a hobby, it was her calling. That moment was the crux of her ambitions and determination. Never one to shy away from hard work or “paying dues”, she began at the bottom and has worked her way to the top. Gabrielle went from volunteering for 2 years as an event assistant to starting her own event planning firm. Gabrielle is the creative director for Blissful Elegance Events as well as the event director for Aneuhaus Entertainment. Ms. Barnes has recently joined forces with Victim 2 Victorious – a private group of local women business owners that help bring awareness about domestic violence to local communities in NYC; celebrate survivors; produce signature events and donate funds to non-profit organizations who struggle to end domestic violence through community awareness, changing policy and support victims and survivors. Her most recent endeavor is Divas in the City (DITC), a social and professional networking organization for todays do it all woman…the Diva. DITC provides women with outlets to connect online through their “virtual club house” and in person through an array of entertaining, educating and empowering events. Divas in the City offers numerous components, and with so many women’s organizations sprouting up they continually strive to be the best and not classified as just another “one-size-fits-all” network. Watch out world, This Diva is destined for greatness and fully committed to building her “Diva Empire”. Gabrielle currently resides in Brooklyn, NY.

Quote of the Day

2009-03-06T04:19:00.000-05:00

Some of us are becoming the men we wanted to marry. Gloria Steinem, feminist

Chamein Canton

2009-03-05T09:33:00.000-05:00

entered this world big from the beginning. I weighed in a few ounces shy of nine pounds and then I spent the rest of my life trying to live down a tiny three lettered word 'big'. I hated being the big girl. At one point in my life I had so much black in my closet I thought I'd hear the voice of James Earl Jones as Darth Vader at any minute. Despite the fact that the average woman in the United States wears a size 14, finding fashionable clothing was like searching for a fountain in the desert. Many of the clothes available were unattractive to say the least. It was like the world said well you're fat anyway so here are some elastic waistbands and shapeless tents, cover up. Looking back now I realize my body was smoking back then but the fact was I was bigger than most of the girls I went to high school with, even though I had a nice body. However I thought at 5'8 I was supposed to be 115 pounds despite the fact I was the second to shortest woman in my family. I spent so much of my teenage years hating my body and feeling bad about myself that I didn't know I was beautiful. We live in a country where bigger is generally better. People don't usually want a small raise for their hard work, they want a big raise. When it's time to buy a home or do some improvements most people go bigger. I've never heard Pat Sajak say let's spin the slim wheel and contestants don't generally shout "Little Money!" when they spin the wheel. Yet the pursuit of the 'ideal thin' body remained a focus for me. Then my life changed. I was diagnosed with uterine cancer at 23 years old. I underwent six years of chemo, biopsies and more surgical procedures than I'd like to remember. To top everything off I was a divorced working mother and sole parental supporter of my sons, so I spent many days going from chemo in the morning straight to work with a supply of, Compazine, airsickness bags, crackers, ginger ale and a very understanding boss. I can't tell you how many days I spent lying on the bathroom floor green with nausea wondering how on earth anyone could want to make themselves sick just so they won't gain weight. For the first time in my life I wasn't focused on losing something, I was focused on gaining. I wanted more minutes, hours, days, weeks, months and years to spend with my children. I was desperate to see my toddler sons grow up and to make it to my 30th birthday. It took a diagnosis of cancer to make me realize what truly counted in life and it wasn't size; it's love. However through chemo I met couples going through the depths of illness together and the love they showed one another touched me in the deepest part of my soul. It was a real testament to for better or for worse. It was then I decided to forget my obsession with size. As a result of cancer I lost a lot. In 1995 I had a hysterectomy after battling the disease in my uterus for years. Yet in a strange way I'm thankful for the lesson having a catastrophic disease taught me. I gained a new respect for life, refocused my life and I followed my dream to become a wedding planner. Still I wanted to bring the insight I learned to my clients so I made it my mission to communicate to brides to be that losing weight was not the key to happiness or being a beautiful bride. The key to feeling and looking beautiful begins with self love; a love that includes body acceptance, setting realistic goals for your body and living a healthy lifestyle, which is how Down That Aisle In Style A Wedding Guide For Full Figured Women, my first foray into writing for full figured women, was born so to speak. I was tired of listening to women berate themselves as second class brides for not being an ideal size, although I understood where they were coming from. Up until about 10 years ago the bridal industry was the last bastion of size discrimination with most brides over a size 12 feeling as if they'd be exiled to ugly gown island and had to do the walk of shame to the back of the bridal salon to find their size. During the research stage of the book I was diagnosed with multiple sclerosis I went into a state of denial. MS has no cure and I just could not and would not deal with it. So I went on to live my life. I worked full-time and pursued my business on the weekends. Whenever a symptom appeared I would just ignore it. Then in 1998 a major episode left me in a wheelchair for several months and I was forced to deal with MS head on. Being in the wheelchair gave me time to redirect my energy again. I was out of the wheelchair within six months and ready to take on the world. I also felt that I could be a better mother and set an example on how to find triumph in difficult situations. To my surprise and delight I was named MS Mother of The Year in 2002 four years after my initial diagnosis as a result of an essay my sons wrote about me. Down That Aisle In Style was nominated for Foreword’s Book of the Year 2007 and although I didn’t win I had the chance to bring full figured brides to the fore on The Insider/Entertainment Tonight, Get Married with David Tutera, NBC Today in New York and Eyewitness News Sunday Morning, Once the bridal book was out I decided to do more to take plus sizes from co-starring roles in romance novels to center stage. My novels feature full figured female characters as the object of desire and not just the jolly chubby friend. In Not His Type I stepped into an arena where skinny women generally rule, that of professional sports. Most high profile athletes are expected to date models, actresses, beauty queens and thin women in general as they are held out as the standard of beauty. I decided to flip the script (a saying courtesy of my twin 21 year old sons) and have a high profile baseball player fall for an average plus size woman, hence the title Not His Type. In April of 2008 I was honored to receive the Romantic Times Reviewers Choice Award for Best African American romance. In June Genesis released Bliss Inc. all about the May-Indian Summer romance between a full figured workaholic wedding planner and the brother of the groom. The More Things Change December 2008 Follow Up to Not His Type. Things aren’t so easy when Cathy and Marcus head down the aisle. I'm thankful to say that I've been cancer free for almost 14 years and I've been able to live successfully with multiple sclerosis for the past 13 years. It's not easy but I embrace every day. I’m thankful for life and the opportunities I’ve had. I only hope that through my fiction I’m able to pay it forward to make a better day for real women of all sizes and shapes. Chamein Canton Achievements Cancer survivor (Uterine) 14 years Living with Multiple Sclerosis 13 years MS Mother of The Year 2002 Not His Type Romantic Times Book Reviewers Choice Award winner for Best African American Romance Literary Agent Contributing wedding writer for Wedding Dresses magazine Columnist for Venus Divas and Elegant Plus Current special occasions editor for More Beautiful Magazine

Quote of the Day

2009-03-05T04:35:00.000-05:00

"I'm selfish, Impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I'm outta control, and at times hard to handle but if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best." - Marilyn Monroe

Noelle Ewanda Sewell

2009-03-04T09:52:00.000-05:00

Noelle Ewanda Sewell has been working with people with HIV for 28 years. She started in 1980 when she volunteered at St. Matthews Social Services Center (now it is known as the Gay Man’s Crisis Center) in lower Manhattan. In 1981, she attended Temple University’s School of Dental Hygiene. She worked with Dr. Michael Glick at Temple University’ High Risk Dental Clinic. The clinic provided dental services to people with infectious diseases. This is where she gained experience in recognizing the oral manifestations of HIV (it was called GRID {Gay Related Immune Disease} at that time). She went on to become the training coordinator for the National Dental Hygiene Association (NDHA), Eastern Regional Chapter, where she was responsible for developing and organizing training for NDHA members on issues of HIV and dental treatment. During this time she also become the Director of Minority Outreach for the Hyacinth Foundation where she supervised 25 volunteer educators who provided AIDS education to the minority community, specifically black churches and the prisons in Bucks County, PA and Mercer County, NJ and military installations. She also provided educational updates four times a year for the volunteer staff. In 1987, she became an advisor to Spirituality for Wellness Support group. The group addresses the spiritual needs of people living with HIV. It is one of the oldest HIV/AIDS support groups for African-Americans in the country. In 1991, Noelle became a HIV Counseling and Testing Trainer through the Center on AIDS and Substance Abuse, Falls Church, VA, where she was responsible for assisting substance abuse treatment programs in setting up HIV Counseling and Testing sites in Maryland (eastern shore), District of Columbia and Northern Virginia. In 1999, Noelle became the Coordinator for Restoration Urban Ministries, Inc. (RUMI). The ministry was founded in 1997 to address the response of the church to community and social problems. Noelle served as Acting President and CEO from January 2007 to January 2008. She is also the Founder and Executive Director of Faith & Knowledge in Action, Inc., which assists small churches, ministries and non-profit organization with information/resource sharing and publicity. She has had articles published in The Philadelphia Sunday Tribune, MI/Productions.com, st8up.co.uk, wtamm.com and Npowermagazine.com monthly e-newsletters. Noelle was the co-chair for the Philadelphia Host Committee for NAPWA’s “Staying Alive Rising Above” Conference, which was held in Philadelphia in August 2003. She has served on the planning committee for the Annual African/Haitian Health Fair in Philadelphia since 2004. She also served as co-chair for the Special Events Committee as a part of the Host Committee for the US Conference on AIDS, which was held in Philadelphia in October 2004. Noelle is a member of WORLD (Women Organized to respond to Life-threatening Diseases), National Association of People living with HIV/AIDS (NAPWA), Global Health Action, Global AIDS Alliance, Bucks County NAACP, International AIDS Society, Trans-Africa Forum, the Philadelphia Chapter of the National Alliance of Marketing Developers, the Philadelphia Black Public Relations Society, Women N Power and M.P.A.C.T. Sisters. She has served as a member of the 2008 Ronald McDonald House Charities African-American Future Achievers scholarship selection committee. Noelle has participated in medical missions trips to Africa, the Caribbean and the South Pacific. In June 2008 she become a member of an Internal Review Board (IRB) at Children’s Hospital of Philadelphia. The IRB reviews medical research projects on a monthly basis. In October 2008 she was appointed board president of African Family Health Organization (AFAHO). AFAHO that assists African and Caribbean Immigrants with accessing health care and social services in the Delaware Valley. She also does presentations on issues such as domestic violence, substance abuse, HIV and mental illness from a social and biblical perspective. Noelle is a 1978 graduate of P.S. du Pont High School in Wilmington, Delaware. She has an AA degree in Dental Hygiene and a BS degree in Health Education from Temple University. She is a member of the Counseling Ministry at New Covenant Church in Philadelphia. She currently works as a Medical Case Manager for an AIDS Service Organization in Philadelphia. Contact Information: (215) 500-2899 and/or (215) 635-2207 faithknowledgeaction@gmail.com Ewanda4299@hotmail.com

Quote of the Day

2009-03-04T04:24:00.000-05:00

It was we, the people; not we, the white male citizens; nor yet we, the male citizens; but we, the whole people, who formed the Union. Susan B. Anthony, feminist

Quote of the Day

2009-03-03T11:50:00.000-05:00

You gain strength, courage and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face. You are able to say to yourself, "I lived through this horror. I can take the next thing that comes along." You must do the thing you think you cannot do. Eleanor Roosevelt, activist

LaShawnda Jones

2009-03-03T06:08:00.000-05:00

A native of Gary, Indiana, LaShawnda Jones has lived all over the country before hanging her hat in New York City in 2005. She is the oldest of four children of the late Terry Ann Stuart. Jones earned an Associate of Applied Science degree in Marketing Management from Milwaukee Area Technical College. She went on to earn her Bachelor of Art degree in Political Science and French at the University of Wisconsin-Milwaukee. While at the University of Wisconsin-Milwaukee, she studied for a semester at the Université de Sorbonne IV in Paris. There, her studies focused on the European Union, French civilization and literature. Upon returning to the United States, Jones interned at the Women’s Resource Center located on UWM’s campus. While working for the WRC, Jones participated in programming and became attuned to social issues affecting women in her community. In 2000, Jones was selected as a full-figure model for the Ebony Fashion Fair, a traveling fashion show. The Ebony Fashion Fair is a non-profit division of the Johnson Publishing Company based in Chicago, Illinois. During the nine month tour, Jones traveled to over 170 U.S. cities, as well as several cities in Canada and the Bahamas. In 2004, Jones started, Jazzy Media LLC. She developed Jazzy Media with the goal of publishing an annual full-figured fashion calendar, posters, gift cards and her literary works. Jones published VoLux Full-Figured Calendar in 2005 and 2007. She published her first volume of poetry, Fantasies: A Metamorphosis of Sexual Attraction in 2005. Her second volume of poetry, Clichés: A Life in Verse was published in 2007. This year she contributed to a book of letters honoring First Lady Michelle Obama, Go, Tell Michelle. Currently, Jones is compiling a collection of blogs on spiritual growth and development through our relationships. Early in 2008, Jones joined amNewYork as a blogger for their politics blog, Politirazzi. amNewYork is a free daily newspaper with a 300,000 plus circulation in the metro New York City area. Jones covered the 2008 presidential campaigns, primaries and election. She posted numerous pieces highlighting her take on the high profile spectacle. She has maintained her blogger status since the election.

INTRODUCING THE GLAMOROUS GORJA Lytoya Parker

2009-03-02T09:43:00.000-05:00

Gorja RCC is leading the national expansion in consulting African American Women with their businesses. The average person assume that being in business is this uptight, traditional dark color suit, hair pulled back in a bun, serious world, fortunately here at “The Glamorous life of Gorja RCC Marketing & Consulting Firm”, we are the exact opposite.We Welcome you to The Gorja RCC Firm.As the world of business moves rapidly becomes more competitive, having a Business Consultant is no longer a luxury, it has become a major necessity. Gorja RCC, will coach, mentor, consult step by step in building your business assist in your,marketing, personal life, and leadership. The main role of a Business Consultant is to coach businessowners to improve their business through guidance, support and encouragement. Just like a sporting coach, your Business Consultant/Coach will make you focus on the game. Gorja RCC pushes our clients to achieve optimum performance, provides support when they are exhausted, and teach our clients to execute plays that their competitiondoes not anticipate. Will make you run more laps than you feel like. One thing that make us stand out from other consulting firms is thatWE DO THINGS IN SUCH A GLAMOROUS WAYWE HOLD NO PUNCHES!!!!WE GET THE ‘JOB’ DONEWE LISTENGorja RCC’s, motto is “REMAIN GLAMOROUS, WITH NO EXCUSES,” We believe that many people set their goals, have the plan, have the desire but fail to activate it all. We have also realized that people tend to make many excuses on why they haven’t accomplished their goals. At Gorja we do believe in (PLAN –DO- REVIEW) to keep our clients on track with their goals however we don’t believe in making excuses. A wise person once said “ You can make excuses or make money, but you can’t do both.” In addition we take HIGH PRIDE IN how Glamorous our clients present themselves, via their image, posture, attitude. Our strongest desires are for all our clients to perform at their BEST, EXCELLENCE IS NO LONGER A CHOICE, its an REQUIREMENT WITH GORJA RCC. We strive for our clients to be able to have a WHOLE LIFE and still be able for their business to thrive. To be the outstanding Mom, the lovingsister, the wonderful wife or significant other, to not take anything away from you, but to add to the current glory of their lives by living in their purpose. To be able to see your business take off, not to only dream about your business, to actually see it with your own two eyes move, and shake!!! We have a direct passion for you and all of your success. Gorja RCC will become your marketing manager, your sales director, your training coordinator; your confidant, your mentor. Gorja RCC will help you make your dreams come TRUE. “REMAIN GLAMOROUS, WITH NO EXCUSES” Become a Gorja Glam TODAY!!!... http://www.gorja.org/

67th United States Secretary of State Hillary Rodham Clinton

2009-03-01T08:52:00.000-05:00

Hillary Diane Rodham Clinton (born October 26, 1947) is the 67th United States Secretary of State, serving in the administration of President Barack Obama. She was a United States Senator from New York from 2001 to 2009. As the wife of Bill Clinton, the 42nd President of the United States, she was the First Lady of the United States from 1993 to 2001. She was a leading candidate for the Democratic presidential nomination in the 2008 election. A native of Illinois, Hillary Rodham first attracted national attention in 1969 for her remarks as the first student to deliver the commencement address at Wellesley College. She embarked on a career in law after graduating from Yale Law School in 1973. Following a stint as a Congressional legal counsel, she moved to Arkansas in 1974 and married Bill Clinton in 1975. In 1977, Rodham co-founded the Arkansas Advocates for Children and Families. In 1978, she became the first female chair of the Legal Services Corporation, having been appointed by President Jimmy Carter. She was later named the first female partner at Rose Law Firm in 1979, and was twice listed as one of the one hundred most influential lawyers in America. She was the First Lady of Arkansas from 1979 to 1981 and 1983 to 1992 and successfully led a task force to reform Arkansas's education system. She was active in a number of organizations concerned with child welfare, as well as sitting on the boards of Wal-Mart and several other corporations. When she was First Lady of the United States, her major initiative, the Clinton health care plan, failed to gain approval from the U.S. Congress in 1994. In 1997 and 1999, Clinton played a role in advocating for the establishment of the State Children's Health Insurance Program, the Adoption and Safe Families Act, and the Foster Care Independence Act. Her time as First Lady drew a polarized response from the American public. She became the only First Lady to be subpoenaed, testifying before a federal grand jury as a consequence of the Whitewater controversy in 1996. She was never charged with any wrongdoing in this or any of the several other investigations during her husband's administration. The state of her marriage to Bill Clinton was the subject of considerable public discussion following the Lewinsky scandal in 1998. After moving to New York, Clinton was elected as senator for New York State in 2000. That election marked the first time an American First Lady had run for public office; Clinton was also the first female senator to represent New York. In the Senate, she initially supported the George W. Bush administration on some foreign policy issues, which included voting for the Iraq War Resolution. She subsequently opposed the administration on its conduct of the war in Iraq, and opposed it on most domestic issues. She was re-elected by a wide margin in 2006. In the 2008 presidential nomination race, Clinton won more primaries and delegates than any other female candidate in American history, but she narrowly lost to Senator Barack Obama. As Obama's Secretary of State, Clinton is the first former First Lady to serve in a president's cabinet. Courtesy of:

Women's History Month

2009-03-01T04:53:00.000-05:00

Today is the start of Women's History month and I'm going to honor those who have inspired me by featuring them on my blog...enjoy. You can write me down in history with hateful, twisted lies, you can tread me in this very dirt, but still, like dust, I'll rise. Maya Angelou, poet, educator

Alex Haley ROOTS

2009-02-28T09:11:00.000-05:00

Alexander Murray Palmer Haley was born on August 11, 1921 in Ithaca, New York. He was the oldest child of Simon Alexander and Bertha Palmer Haley. At the time of his birth, his father was a graduate student at Cornell University and his mother was a music teacher. As a young boy, Alex Haley first learned of his African ancestor, Kunta Kinte, by listening to the family stories of his maternal grandparants while spending his summers in Henning, Tennessee. According to family history, Kunta Kinte landed with other Gambian Africans in "Naplis" (Annapolis, Maryland) where he was sold into slavery. Alex Haley's quest to learn more about his family history resulted in his writing the Pulitzer Prize-winning book Roots. The book has been published in 37 languages, and was made into the first week-long television mini-series, viewed by an estimated 130 million people. Roots also generated widespread interest in genealogy. Haley's writing career began after he entered the U.S. Coast Guard in 1939. Haley was the first member of the U.S. Coast Guard with a Journalist designation (rating). In 1999 the U.S. Coast Guard honored Haley by naming a Coast Guard Cutter after him. Haley's personal motto, "Find the Good and Praise It," appears on the ship's emblem. He retired from the military after 20 years of service, and then continued writing. Out of the service, he tried his hand at journalism in the private sector. His first successful article was an interview that appreared in Playboy Magazine in 1962. Haley wrote many well received playboy interviews. He next worked on The Autobiography of Malcolm X. Published in 1965, it became Haley's first major book. It was about this time his thoughts then turned back to the family story of the African slave that he heard as a child. His work on the story, which he knew he had to write, became a primary focus of his writing efforts. He details his many years of research in the last chapter of Roots. First referred to as Before This Anger, it was eventually published in abbreviated form in 1974 by the Reader's Digest. The completed version of Roots was placed on bookshelves in 1976. The award winning book and 1977 television mini-series introduced Kunta Kinte to the world. Other Haley publications include A Different Kind of Christmas, a 1990 book about the underground railroad, and Queen, the story of Haley's paternal ancestors. Queen was produced into a television mini-series, which first aired in the winter of 1993. Perhaps one of Alex Haley's greatest gifts was in speaking. He was a fascinating teller of tales. In great demand as a lecturer, both nationally and internationally, he was on a lecture tour in Seattle, Washington in February 1992 when he suffered a heart attack and died. Despite his passing, he has left a legacy of international stature. Kunta Kinte has become a cultural icon world wide. And, Roots initiated such a widespread interest in genealogy research that Haley is considered to be the father of popular genealogy. Courtesy of:http://www.kintehaley.org/rootshaleybio.html